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moomin239 · Oct 4, 2013, 01:02 AM

Been trying to find my ex for 10 years. He walked out on me and his 3 daughters when they where babies. He's in France some where so he doesn't have to pay for them. He also remarried and had another child then he walked out on them. I wouldn't know where to start looking as his family will not tell me anything. Lol shame really as he missed out and Internet comes up with nothing :(

Fr_Chuck · Oct 4, 2013, 02:58 AM

Whjy exactly do you want to find him ? What benefit is it to find him ?

Hiring a private detective ? Is he a French Citizen or is he there under passport ?

moomin239 · Oct 4, 2013, 06:20 AM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Whjy exactly do you want to find him ? what benefit is it to find him ?

Hiring a private detective ? Is he a French Citizen or is he there under passport ?

The benefit to him is his daughter and contact there dad and talk to him, as it makes me very sad when they ask me were their daddy is and I can't do any thing about it? He want born in the uk, and married a French citizen so I don't know. I can't hire a private detective as I can't afford it as I am a single parent who doesn't get child support fom her ex

talaniman · Oct 4, 2013, 07:16 AM

Bet all the kids he has walked away from want to contact their dad. And obviously he doesn't want to be found. Yes it's sad their dad is an uncaring dead beat, but at some point you have to recognize that you need a better plan than spinning your wheels trying to find him, since you cannot force him to do anything.

If his family won't help, then you are left with very few options until you can tell your kids the truth. Does his family have any contact with his kids?

moomin239 · Oct 4, 2013, 08:48 AM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Bet all the kids he has walked away from want to contact their dad. And obviously he doesn't want to be found. Yes it's sad their dad is an uncaring dead beat, but at some point you have to recognize that you need a better plan than spinning your wheels trying to find him, since you cannot force him to do anything.

If his family won't help, then you are left with very few options until you can tell your kids the truth. Does his family have any contact with his kids?

No they don't want any thing to do with us, what makes me mad is that he has his son every other week over there in france, so his nephew says, but in the last 12 years he has seen his daughters twice ;(