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    Sep 26, 2013, 11:39 AM
    Is it normal to get weird thoughts of being gay?
    Am 21 year old and I know am straight, but I get this weird thought, "what if am gay?".
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    Sep 26, 2013, 11:41 AM
    So what is your question? Have you had thoughts about anyone in particular? Have you had gay fantasies? If you know you're straight, what's the problem?
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    Sep 26, 2013, 11:54 AM
    Do you think that in all reality if you had the real-life chance you would actually do any of it.
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    Sep 26, 2013, 03:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    So what is your question? Have you had thoughts about anyone in particular? Have you had gay fantasies? If you know you're straight, what's the problem?
    No I just have this. Thought am straight I love. Girls just sum times it come on my mine. Do I like guys am they do not attract. Me at all just its my mentality. That tell. Me. What if I was gay I can't be. Gay I love girls I can't stop looking at them. Is it depression. Making me think,this
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    Sep 26, 2013, 04:14 PM
    Maybe you are worried about it. Are you depressed? Why don't you speak with a counselor, find out what's going on. I think you are becoming obsessed with this.
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    Sep 26, 2013, 04:17 PM
    I do have a silly question. Why is this posted in the teen section if you're 21?
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    Sep 26, 2013, 04:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    I do have a silly question. Why is this posted in the teen section if you're 21?
    I wondered that as well.
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    Sep 26, 2013, 04:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Maybe you are worried about it. Are you depressed? Why don't you speak with a counselor, find out what's going on. I think you are becoming obsessed with this.
    I think your right were can I get this kind of help can't also be. By having too much. Things in. Mine like college work payments ext...
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    Sep 26, 2013, 04:43 PM
    Do you have counselors through the university?
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    Sep 26, 2013, 05:11 PM
    Yes
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    Sep 26, 2013, 05:36 PM
    Ask them if they can tell you where or how to get a counselor. Maybe they have one on campus.
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    Sep 26, 2013, 06:02 PM
    Its normal to have weird random thoughts pops in our heads, but don't obsess over it. That only keeps it there and you have them more often. We all have our own brand of random weird thoughts.

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