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    Aug 20, 2013, 06:40 PM
    "Grooming"
    What must a teacher do to "cross the line"? And how do you know if a teacher Is "grooming" a student? What are the signs?
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    Aug 20, 2013, 06:42 PM
    A teacher crosses the line when they extend the parent/teacher relationship outside the classroom.

    Why do you ask?

    Also "grooming" is a term associated with pedophiles who set up minors for sex. Is that what you think is happening?
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:42 PM
    A teacher crosses the line when they do inappropriate things with a student in or outside of the classroom. Any suspicious behavior should be reported by colleagues. So, if you are the student, tell your parents or another teacher. Teachers must report inappropriate behavior, period.
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    A teacher crosses the line when they do inappropriate things with a student in or outside of the classroom. Any suspicious behavior should be reported by colleagues. So, if you are the student, tell your parents or another teacher. Teachers must report inappropriate behavior, period.
    And what exactly is "inappropriate" when talking about a teacher and student relationship?
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:51 PM
    Why don't you tell us and we'll tell you if it's inappropriate.
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    A teacher crosses the line when they extend the parent/teacher relationship outside the classroom.

    Why do you ask?

    Also "grooming" is a term associated with pedophiles who set up minors for sex. Is that what you think is happening?
    I was just curious. Thanks for the information :)
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Why don't you tell us and we'll tell you if it's inappropriate.
    I don't have any examples, its more like I would like to have the information. Thank you though for helping.
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    Aug 20, 2013, 07:54 PM
    I see you like your teacher and have a crush on him...

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...me-762108.html
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    Aug 20, 2013, 08:20 PM
    I've heard stories of kindergarten teachers getting in serious trouble for simply giving a crying student a quick sympathetic hug.
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    Aug 20, 2013, 08:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I've heard stories of kindergarten teachers getting in serious trouble for simply giving a crying student a quick sympathetic hug.
    It depends on how the hug takes place. A quick pat on the shoulder or a pat on the back is sufficient, but always done when others are around.
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    Aug 20, 2013, 08:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    And what exactly is "inappropriate" when talking about a teacher and student relationship?
    If it looks bad or is questionable, then teachers shouldn't be involved in it. If you like your teacher, which you've said before, why are you still asking? You should have distanced yourself.
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    Aug 21, 2013, 03:12 AM
    Based on your other thread this is clearly more than idle curiosity. And the actions of your teacher are clearly inappropriate as the responses to your other thread show.

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