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    Jul 18, 2013, 06:39 AM
    Quick Orgasms and Laughter?
    So here's the thing... I have met a 41 year old woman and on the second date we got it on with fingers and thumbs etc. 3 times in the car and 4 at her place I made her orgasm while we made out. So that is all great and I am pleased the chemistry is great but a) she is coming really quickly (30 secs to 2 mins) and no she isn't faking it. B) she laughs out loudly once the orgasm hits - every time.

    It's the first time I've come across a "laugher" and it seems quite strange. Is this common and advice on prolonging her orgasm time would be great? I'm quite experienced but never met anyone so quick to orgasm and the laughing, my neighbours now think I must be really funny ;)
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    Jul 18, 2013, 06:57 AM
    Hello:

    I think she's fine, but thumbs?? What do you do with them?

    excon
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    Jul 18, 2013, 07:35 AM
    I really can't see why you would have an issue with this... I'd be all over that.
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    Jul 18, 2013, 07:45 AM
    Ask or comment in a light hearted way like maybe "I see I make you laugh or is that a reflex?" and then laugh with her.

    To your other part possibly she hasn't been with a guy in awhile or she is capable of multiple
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    Jul 18, 2013, 08:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello:

    I think she's fine, but thumbs??? What do you do with them?

    excon
    Oh come on exxy, don't you know?!
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    Jul 18, 2013, 08:39 AM
    I think that is WONDERFUL, a happy orgasm !
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    Jul 18, 2013, 09:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    Oh come on exxy, don't you know ?????!!!!
    Gee I am so surprised by ex's answer... he is an expert on everything else.
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    Jul 18, 2013, 09:59 PM
    The laughing could also be because she is very sensitive down there.
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    Jul 18, 2013, 11:48 PM
    Infinite variety, right?
    Something new every day.
    Maybe intercourse will delay her orgasms, maybe you are just fantastic with fingers and thumbs, who knows.
    It's funny how we go online to discuss our sex lives with strangers, but not with our partners.
    I'm sure as you two get intimate (in the old fashioned sense of getting to know each other), you will learn a lot more about her.
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    Jul 19, 2013, 10:20 AM
    Enjoy it... be happy you found someone so easy to make happy and satisfy... and don't try to find anything wrong where nothing is.

    As far as laughing... no not common but then of the few dozen women I''ve known that well in my life... no two are alike. And that is actually a good thing.

    Picture this... what if she had been the type (for whatever reason) that just laid there limp and didn't make a sound? Or she had been one with such difficulty reaching orgasm it quickly becomes work and not pleasure? Count your blessings.
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    Jul 19, 2013, 01:57 PM
    I wouldn't question a good experience but get a hotel room and get out of the car, and get even more experienced, and see how it goes.
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    Jul 21, 2013, 03:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello:

    I think she's fine, but thumbs??? What do you do with them?

    excon
    Really? Two fingers inside my lover and using the thumb to stimulate her clitoris is my normal thing...
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    Jul 21, 2013, 06:22 AM
    Hello again, M:

    I can't text with my thumbs either..

    excon
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    Jul 21, 2013, 11:26 AM
    I am chosing to ignore Excon. Reluctantly, of course.

    I'd like to know how you are positive she isn't "faking it". She's 41. How old are you that this is satisfying to her, no intercourse, just "fingers and thumbs."

    You must be super stud. Enjoy the experience.

    Laughing during orgasm? Hmm.
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    Jul 21, 2013, 12:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I am chosing to ignore Excon. Reluctantly, of course.

    I'd like to know how you are positive she isn't "faking it". She's 41. How old are you that this is satisfying to her, no intercourse, just "fingers and thumbs."

    You must be super stud. Enjoy the experience.

    Laughing during orgasm? Hmm.
    Maybe she is laughing at the absurdity of it?
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    Jul 21, 2013, 06:43 PM
    Right - and probably it's Meg Ryan saying she's been faking it all along - and then demonstrating.
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