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    Jan 13, 2014, 08:28 AM
    4 married adults, all cheating on each other and none of you knows what to do. You probably know what the right thing is, go home, stop cheating and resolve your issues, and stop making a mockery of your own commitments. I fail to see the point of any of you being married.
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    Mar 3, 2014, 01:08 AM
    I'm broken he planned to move on... he is panning his family now... forgiving his wife due to his parents happiness he has moved on... he still says il b his love always... but I'm nowhere now... plzzz help... im in bad state...
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    #43

    Mar 3, 2014, 07:00 AM
    Work on your own marriage. Choose to get out of the bad state you're in and move on yourself. Happiness is a choice. He has chosen to work with what he has and you can chose to do something positive with your life. You have become stuck and comfortable in that mess with him. Time to grow up and get a life of your own. Make your own happiness. Happiness that is dependent on whether someone loves you is not real.
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    Mar 12, 2014, 02:17 AM
    I'm not happy in my life... took efforts too but its not working... im going in depression state... he says he has chosen to move on I should too but its difficult I have given my soul to this relation... il let myself die rather than our relation tooo...
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    #45

    Mar 12, 2014, 07:34 AM
    Take your soul back and get through this very common part of the grieving process so you can accept that he was poison from the start. You are still a junkie for his dope, but hang in there until all the poison has cleared your system.

    Yes it's difficult, but the easy way to happiness is what lead you to this misery in the first place.
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    #46

    Mar 12, 2014, 07:47 AM
    Life is what you make of it... do you want to be happy? Or do you want to wallow in what makes you unhappy. The choice is yours to make.....put him behind you and be happy...or try to hang on to something that was never really any good...and be unhappy.
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    Mar 12, 2014, 12:42 PM
    Many of us have gone through break ups and lost someone we cared for yet we continued on. The fact that you can't seem to let this go indicates that you need some professional help to get beyond it.
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