[wasp115]

I am a newlywed. I am having some feelings about a situation and I wanted input from others. My husband frequently goes over to his friend's house to hang out. He says it is for guy time, but it never is just the two of them. His friend's girlfriend is always there as well. All three of them hang out a few times a week and I am never invited. I feel jealous and upset that I am not included. The only times I am included is when there is some sort of party or celebration. When this occurs the firlfriend is very friendly to me. Outside of this situation she does not contact me at all. I have extended numerous invites to shop, eat, see a movie, etc. It never worked out. I am pissed at how fake it seems. Do I return the fake niceties? Do I quit attending parties? My husband does not see it the way I do. Thanks.

[Fr_Chuck]

If the other girlfriend is there and part of their get together, it is not "guy time" if he is going over and they are hanging out in one room and she is in another that is different.

This is an issue that must have been going on before marriage,? But tell husband, the issue, and that you will go with him next time.