Originally Posted by
talaniman
And you really see this as a healthy thing to spend your time with? Unbelievable.
I don't see this as a healthy way to spend my time. I'm single live on my own, don't go out very much so chatting on line is a way to spend lonely evenings. I've reflected on our last conversation and finally he has said how he see's me - still confusing - one minute he says he wants to have a family (I already have a grown up family) so wants someone to have that with. But he's not working and lives in a room in rented house, so how he thinks he's going to achieve that I've no idea. I'm older than him and now believe I was just a fantasy of his and a friendship of sorts built up over the years. He is a weak man and I am just a bad habit which he has trouble letting go of, but I now see that I meant nothing and next time there is contact I will be telling him, although he didn't pay much attention to the email I sent him saying I needed to move on, so going to need to be tough. He has hurt my feelings and he needs to know this, it may hurt and upset him but I'm going to tell him all the same.
