[bothexted]

Why is it that I can be mowing the lawn or busy washing the dishes, and my wife arrives angry and tells me what she needs done immediately. Her needs do not seem serious but her anger certainly is!

[odinn7]

Really? That makes her evil? Mine does it too. No matter what I'm doing, it's not enough. I brush it off. What's the big deal? I think we all tend to be like that now and then.

Or... perhaps there is some underlying problem here that you're not telling us about.

[talaniman]

Do it yourself, I'm busy!!!!!! or yes dear. Take your pick of how to react.

[Oliver2011]

When the wife bites
When the spouse stings
When I'm feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don't feel so bad...

[joypulv]

A.
Once upon a time
A little moo cow
One upon a time
Little you-i
Threw a wish at blue
B.
Roses are red
Violets are blue
She loves me
She loves me not
C.
Life's a gag
Laugh or choke
Life's a beach
Life's a
And then you die

[Cat1864]

Your wife is evil? Does this mean you see yourself as good?

How old are both of you and how long have you been married?

I am not there and your question is so brief, I have to ask what else is going on? What is the rest of the story?

Have you sat down and tried asking her what is wrong or why she gets angry and asks you to do something else? Is she meaning to sound angry or is that way you are hearing it? Have you tried to set boundaries with her about chores? Who does what when and agree to leave each other alone when they are taking care of their items?

Are you mowing or doing the dishes to try to get out of something she asked you to do earlier? Are you making her feel defensive because the mowing and dishes need doing?

I am a bit curious when one spouse says their partner is 'evil'. Always makes me wonder just what is going on and if there major details being skipped over.