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    Feb 24, 2013, 03:47 PM
    Does my male friend have feelings for me or is he just being possessive ?
    I met this guy last October at university and we've been talking ever since then... I started to like him more than a friend and he was giving off that impression too. After a couple of months he began getting moody with me and a bit distant, used to call me at least 3 times a day asking where I was, one time I was with my male friends and one female friend, he called me asking me where I was and said I was dodgy for being with my friends, I found that quite rude and a bit weird. Every time I mention a male friend or even a female friend or male family member he would start acting jealous and become anti-social, he even told me what to wear and what not to wear!!
    I just want to know whether he likes me so much but he's insecure or he's just possessive and just wants someone to control ?
    Thanks for the help :)
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    Feb 25, 2013, 01:02 AM
    Ok I am going to say this as a man some guys act jealous and act like a control freak and anti social he might like you but telling you what to and what not to wear and getting upset about your family no that is a sign he is unsure what you need to do is sit with him and tell him how it makes you fell when he does all of this and if he loves you and wants to be with you then he will be willing to do anything even change his ways
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    Feb 25, 2013, 04:59 AM
    I'm wondering why we would know more about him than you. All the experience and wisdom and insight in the world can't fathom a short paragraph about someone, or even pages and pages. The relationship does sound strange, so it's time to sit him down and ask him what he wants out of it! But before you ask him, ask yourself what you want. It takes two to tango.
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    Feb 26, 2013, 05:33 AM
    Sounds like he likes you. If you like him ask him?

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