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So that is just sort of a wish... nothing wrong with having something like that to plan, even if it never happens, just a way to put all your grief in one 'thing' when it's too big to deal with.
You might have some better ideas. Something you can bury in the yard? How old is your sister? Do you get along; are you friends? |
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Oh, your dear old rabbit! I meant something from your dad, a picture or piece out of the bunkbed, something symbolic. Hope I'm not being too symbolic about everything.
It's just that when your feelings are so huge about someone, a symbolic item or act helps concentrate them into something specific. I'm glad you and your sister have each other. Does she finish high school this coming summer? What are her plans? Something else you have to prepare for; maybe her not being around as much? |
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Make a little shrine to your grandfather, a shelf in your room, a plant in the yard... with little mementos for him, even if they weren't his. A little place to look at while you think good thoughts or light a candle.
Splinter off some of the bunkbed your dad made and bury it (since it doesn't sound like you are going to wreck it), and write a poem to recite after you do. Write about how you will be free of how he treated you and your family. That he isn't you, and you aren't him, and you have made your grandfather your honorary father. Or go throw it in a river and watch it float away. (Again-tell me if I'm too symbolic.) What do you and your sister talk about? |
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Hi miss you poem
I love the fact you were always there for me, When I cried you would put a smile on my face, You were there quick as a flash just like a father could be, Even though you're gone I still feel you here with me every step of the way, I cry and feel your warmth here right by me, I wish you never went away, You filled my life with joy, Made me smile the whole time, When someone tried to hurt me you would say oi, My life is so empty, I wish you were here, I'm going crazy. |
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Nice.
I had a sweet dad. I wrote one little poem, but mainly I talk to him in my mind or sometimes outloud. He liked to joke (in a quiet way, quiet man all around) so if I hear something funny, I say 'oh you would have loved that.' WOW, this thread has had over 1,000 views. |
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