[3dragonfly]

Everything was perfit. My boyfriend told my kids he love there mother and he didn't plan on going anywhere and we will probably get a house together soon. As we both have a house. He got stressed out about work family issues. Now he told me he doesn't know if we're meant to be. Or what's going to happen to us. But relax he still loves me. I deal with depression and this pushed me to a real low. I'm trying not to read into it but I'm so scared. We gone threw two divorces each. Both are scared of doing it again. But we went from being so perfect to I'm not sure ahhhhh I'm spinning and feels like things are out of control. I know I'm extremely depressed and can't tell him as he said I'm stressing him out. But I can't cope and try to pretend nothing changed. Help me

[dore0021]

I'm sorry to say this but you might be putting too much pressure on him? It sounds like you both have a lot of issues and maybe he's just not in the state right now to take care of you?

[mark25624]

I'm sorry to say this but you might be putting too much pressure on him? It sounds like you both have a lot of issues and maybe he's just not in the state right now to take care of you?

I have to agree somewhat.
He may not be all that sure if he can handle both you and your depression, kids, job, house, so on.
It may be too much for him.
Don't put all the blame on yourself.
There are other things he may be thinking about.