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    GeorgeBorge Posts: 28, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 8, 2013, 10:26 AM
    Is it really possible for girls to become lovers because of close female friendship?
    I always see women and they always have female friends.
    Very close relationships. Sometimes even hold hands even though they claim they don't like girls in a sexual way.

    I'm seeing a lot of lesbian coming out or closeted( evidence in the internet)
    And it seems it all starts from having really really close relationships with women as friends.

    In Asian countries it's even more cause they hold hands so much and hold arms.
    Women just seem to like being with women so it's kidn of natural to develop bonds.. and bonds is the same as relationship.
    Some women just try to say they don't feel nothing but

    If you spend so much time with someone even have bodies(hands arms) touching each other, I would think they develop some kind of relationship. And love. They may deny it but it's true.
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    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
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    Jan 8, 2013, 07:50 PM
    Women who touch each other do not become lesbians. Touching does not produce homosexual feelings or desires, for men OR for women. And men and women can touch each other without producing feelings of lust.
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    Jan 9, 2013, 12:27 PM
    Women's feelings are more open than guys!
    They are into relationships, feelings, emotions!!
    We guys!! Are not so much into that as they are!

    Women who hold hands are natural with them.
    They feel comfortable around another women.
    Nothing to worry about.
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    Jan 9, 2013, 12:35 PM
    Big difference between close female relationships, and a sexual relationships. Man or woman.
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    Jan 9, 2013, 02:28 PM
    Many of your questions generalize and seem to group people based on your thoughts. I recall one question you had about Asians getting more plastic surgery than anyone else. Another about Asians being minorities yet you see them everywhere. Where do you come up with this stuff and why?
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    Jan 9, 2013, 03:46 PM
    "They may deny it but it's true"?

    Where is the proof of that statement?

    And I agree - there appears to be an attitude toward Asian women.
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    Jan 9, 2013, 04:09 PM
    Yes, you generalize, your extrapolate, you exaggerate, you make sweeping assumptions.
    You 'always' see women and they 'always' have female friends - no, you don't.
    Millions of women develop close bonds with other women, and love them, as friends, as best friends, maybe even as the person they would prefer to spend the most time with - without being lovers. A FEW do become lovers, but in my experience it was because one of them was a lesbian already, and the other one tried it. Even fewer remain as lesbians just because of that, I would say one in a million, although that's just a guess. I have known one or two who tried it for a while.
    Oh - and same with men.
    You just can't put 7 billion human beings in one basket, my friend!

    (I'm pretty sure OP grew up in Japan?)
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    Jan 9, 2013, 04:57 PM
    This person seems to be racist of some reason about Asians,
    And really is uneducated about them.
    He also does not seem to answer or respond to facts given.

    But no closeness has nothing to do with becoming gay or lesbian.

    I live in China, girls hold hands, they walk holding each others arms, but men and women seldom walk holding hands, it is just a culture thing.

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