[miketctlane]

I am a twenty I been an addict since fourteen and I have sex at least 10-12 times a week I want to stop but they way females want to give it to me its hard. How can I stop and will I have problems later on in life being sexually active because of it?

[joypulv]

How do you define addict? Does your work, school, family, or social life in general suffer?
You are the only one who can answer your question.
'Problems later in life' are possibly getting STDs that are untreatable, and relationships that don't last if you want to settle down. Again, you have to answer the second one.

[miketctlane]

But its all I think about!

[odinn7]

And, uh... women just feel the need to give it to you?

[miketctlane]

Yes that's part of the reason I can't stop.

[odinn7]

Like, they just come up to you and throw themselves at you out of nowhere?

[joypulv]

Men reach their testosterone peak at about your age. So 'it's all I think about' is kind of the response most young men give to questions about sex, but they think about it while working and studying and so on. You evaded the part about it ruining your life. Is it and do you want to stop? There are groups for sex addicts. Some are court ordered to be there. If the answer is yes and yes, then join a group. If the answer is no and no, then you got your answer about whether it can hurt you, and you don't need to protest.

[tickle]

Women seek you out and can't stop themselves, once they fine you, for sex?

You could have a condition called 'priapus' which is named after the greek god with a huge member who was insatiable. You need to speak to a professional, this condition could absolutely ruin your sex life.

En.wikipedia.org/wiki/Priapus

[smoothy]

Its simple keep your pants on.


Or think about this... you could end up paying child support for the next 18+ years for EACH one you knock up... and that could easily be several. The idea you might be handing over MOST of what you earn for the next several decades (longer if College is considered) should be enough to take the fun out of it, as it should.

And no matter HOW MUCH protection you use.. it can still happen easy enough.

And its simply a matter of maturity... if you was mature... your big head would be making the decisions for you... not the little one. Just because you CAN do something doesn't mean you should.

[joypulv]

I knew plenty of people, more men than women I suppose, who had sex seemingly non stop with many partners, back in the 60s and 70s, before AIDS. None of them considered themselves as being sick, weird, or addicted.
As I said, YOU have to decide if you are an addict and what that might mean.

[Alty]

10-12 times a week isn't that excessive. If you were having sex 10-12 times a day, then I'd say you have a problem.

How old are you? Do you have a job? Is this having an effect on your job?

Really, if this is an issue where you can't control yourself, then you need to seek help. The internet won't help, you need therapy.

Good luck.

[smoothy]

But its all I think about!

I'm 51.. I think about it a lot too... I however don't chase after every woman that looks at me... and yeah... if I was that kind of guy I could get more than a few of them too... but I'm not... too many diseases for one... for another I am married to a pretty good woman.. better than most out there as far as I'm concerned... why screw it up for something less than I already have.

[Fr_Chuck]

If it is just random women, write a book and teach others.

But 10 times is not that much at that age, I most likely still go 5 times a week at ( well over 50) now.

But one has to be careful of sex with too many partners.

Won't effect your older years unless they get pregnant ( no birth control is 100 percent)
and unless you get a STD and so on

[Enigma1999]

Just to clarify. Is it 10 to 12 times a week with the same person, or is it 10 to 12 different partners a week?