Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    precious91's Avatar
    precious91 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Dec 5, 2012, 11:49 AM
    Boyfriend is more interested in porn and games.
    He's always watched porn, even though he knows it's not okay with me. Same with video games. We have been together for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. I'm 21, and he's 26. He hasn't literally touched me in 2 months, and it hurts. I'm eight months pregnant and work part time evenings, and while I'm at work he's at home watching porn. I guess it's better than him cheating, but still, there are times where I've sat down and cried. On our days off together, he'd rather play his video games then spend time with me. He says he's happy about the baby, yet doesn't get involved with anything. I've wondered if it would be better to leave and support the baby on my own, but all I have is a high school diploma, and rent is expensive.
    smoothy's Avatar
    smoothy Posts: 25,492, Reputation: 2853
    Uber Member
     
    #2

    Dec 5, 2012, 12:09 PM
    First off... as an adult male if ANYONE told me I could NOT do something... I'd do it more just on the principle of it...

    If you nag him about it you are driving him further away... also being that far along tends to freak some guys out sexually, while it turns other guys on... I think he might be the former.

    There is a HUGE difference between talking AT someone rather than talking WITH them.

    Remember he is an equal partner and not subservient to you any more than you are to him.


    Does he work?

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Could my boyfriend be more interested in porn? Please help [ 1 Answers ]

Honestly, I am not bothered by porn, I assume most men watch it. When my boyfriend and I first started dating I asked about it and he said he didn't watch it because he had me but now I asked again because our sex life has dwindled down to maybe once or twice a month. When I asked he said he does...

Is he interested or just playing games? [ 4 Answers ]

I'm interested in this guy but not sure if he likes me or just playing games. I met him a few months back threw a mate who was trying to set us up, about 4 weeks ago I saw him again around my mates house an we spent all night speaking he walked me to the bus stop and asked for my number I said I...

Playing games or not interested [ 13 Answers ]

All right, so I met a woman online. We HAVE NOT gone on a date yet. We've texted and called and talked online for about 2 weeks now. I have been out of the dating game for a bit and I'm wondering something though. At times, she'll text me, I'll text back and I won't hear a reply for a few...

Boyfriend isn't interested in sex but views a lot of porn [ 26 Answers ]

Hi, I'm Kate. I have read a lot of posts on the topic of boyfriends, sex, and porn, but I haven't found one that really fits my situation. Your advice and ideas are appreciated. I am 31 and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together almost a year. He is a fantastic man in many ways, we have a fun...


View more questions Search