[mica b]

Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year. In the beginning everything was perfect. But after a year together and living together we seem to be fighting more and he gets very angry out of nowhere and half the time it’s not because anything I did . He says he wants us to start over again to get things back to the way they were but inside I don’t know if that’s possible. If things don’t go the way he wants them to he will mess everybody’s day up. He has two kids and I have one no kids together. And top it off his kids mom starts trouble in our relationship. I realized that crying and showing emotion and smothering him makes it worst so I decided to distance myself from him but I really don’t know what else to do I miss us so bad , what should I do ?

[talaniman]

Its been a year, the honeymoon is over and its time to reevaluate where this relationshipis headed. Things are always perfect and great at the beginning, but reality changes things greatly.

If honest communications and time cannot resolve your issues, then what you had before will not come back.

Talk and make some adjustments that benefit you both, or what's the point?

[Homegirl 50]

Sounds to me like the shine has worn off and you are now seeing what is really there. You need to ask yourself if this is what you want to deal with. Baby momma drama and control. Think about it is he worth it?