[ifailed]

Everyone reading this is probably going to think this is such a pointless post.. but I need advice..

I've been with my boyfriend for 2O months.. when we first got together everything was perfect and he treated me so nice. All of a sudden his ex started sending him love poems/songs and asking if they could get back together.. this soon stopped. Then recently he started sending sexual messages to a girl from nursery, calling her gorgeous/beautiful/baby.. he's never called me pretty/gorgeous/beautiful. He's always pointing out how pretty other girls are and how much he loves blondes..

I'm a size 12 and he tells me I'm fat.. I'm always trying new things with my makeup because he tells me I'm ugly and constantly comparing other girls to me. He never wants to be seen out in public with me, even to go to the local shop. And when we play fight, he takes it to far and does kind of hurt me (not meaning to, he doesn't know how strong he is) and tellls me I'm being a baby and laughs at me with his friends. He's always speaking to me horribly in front of his friends. He hates being alone in the same room together, even getting to the point where he won't even cuddle me or kiss me cause of the way I look in his eyes. His mum and dad are always commenting on the way he treats me and he just laughs and says he treats me fine..

I love him, but I'm at breaking point, I don't know what to do anymore..

[Wondergirl]

Why oh why are you excusing his very bad behavior? Stop being so desperate to be loved. What he is giving you isn't love. He's mean and a controller and an abuser. Leave this relationship and pull yourself together. We will help you do that.

[Homegirl 50]

You leave him. He treats you horrible. It's a no brainer

[Alexis Dubree]

Leave him alone. You deserve better than him.

[odinn7]

You love him? How can you love a pig like that? Wow... I can't believe you put up with being treated that way. Dump the loser and you will be so much better off.

[ifailed]

Thanks for your replies girlies. Going to put myself first for once!

[Wondergirl]

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