Grieving is a difficult process. The first year is always the hardest. I lost both of my parents within 6 months, and it was the hardest thing I ever went through. The first Christmas without them, the first birthday, just driving around and seeing a spot we went to once, and starting to cry because we'd never be able to go back together.
It's hard. I won't lie to you, you'll never stop missing him. There will be days when all you'll do is cry. But, it does get easier.
At this point, since you've tried grief counseling, and you've gone to your doctor, I would highly suggest that you talk to your doctor, or a different doctor (since this one doesn't seem to be helping) about antidepressants. There's no shame in taking them, none at all. They won't help you get over him, but they will help you at lest live your life, be there for your son. I'm sure he's having a hard time right now too, and he needs you.
I would suggest that you try counseling again. Sometimes it takes a while to find a counselor that's right for you, one you can work with. Group sessions with other people going through the same thing, helps a lot too.
Of course you can come here, and talk to us, but I think that you'll get more out of a face to face meeting with people you can actual get together with.
Please consider my suggestions, and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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