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    Bahamutxff7 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 16, 2012, 11:22 AM
    Why does she make me feel so good?
    I have been together with my girl for two years. Our relationship does not seem steady at all.One day we are fighting saying we going to leave and the other we are okay. I have been chilling with one of my friends which I now consider my best friend (she's a girl). I talk to her about everything. I feel so different around her I love it.

    But yeah I just found out my girl is pregnant but I'm so confused about my feelings. Is it normal to feel better around my friend?
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    Nov 16, 2012, 12:22 PM
    You feel better around your best friend because there is no expectation of the relationship other than a friendship. Those relationships are less threatening and somewhat easier. That is very normal.

    However, if you think you had shaky ground before, having a baby on the way can only make it shakier. Some form of birth control would have probably prevented that condition while you two worked on your relationship. Good luck with it.
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    Nov 17, 2012, 05:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Oliver2011 View Post
    You feel better around your best friend because there is no expectation of the relationship other than a friendship. Those relationships are less threatening and somewhat easier. That is very normal.

    However, if you think you had shaky ground before, having a baby on the way can only make it shakier. Some form of birth control would have probably prevented that condition while you two worked on your relationship. Good luck with it.
    Thank you so much for your feedback I almost thought I was falling for my best friend for a min
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    Nov 17, 2012, 12:38 PM
    I would imagine you are confusing being grateful for having a best friend, and being in love. Especially given the hard time and fear of being a dad you are going through.
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    Nov 18, 2012, 04:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I would imagine you are confusing being grateful for having a best friend, and being in love. Especially given the hard time and fear of being a dad you are going thru.
    well I'm not really scared of being a dad it's that I wasn't sure where this relationship was going to end and now there it's more complicated
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    Nov 18, 2012, 01:03 PM
    Baby(?) yes, Girlfriend NO!! Female friend, stay friends!
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