[itsdelilahyo]

Okay so, this guy has asked me out in the past a couple of times, at first I was happy that someone has finally asked me out, since I've been single for a couple of months (broke up with my ex boyfriend of 8 months). I didn't really know him, we talked a couple of times, he has a class with me. But we hardly talked at all, so I asked him if we could get to know each other for a while before getting into a relationship that I wasn't ready of. Well, this new guy came into my school and I sort of started liking him immediately, (sad, I know, but he had something that the other guy didn't, he had confidence; he right away asked for my number) we talked on the phone so much, I completely forgot about the other guy. The new guy, he liked me as much as I liked him, but he said he didn't do relationships. I was all right with it since we stayed friends. Then a couple of weeks later, he started dating this girl. At first I didn't know what to feel, I was confused, but my friends started hating him. They eventually thought it's time to get to know the other guy that really liked me in the first place. He never talked to me, but he talked to my friend asking questions about me. Finally, today he asked me out, I wasn't sure how I felt, but I felt like I was forced into liking him because of what my friends tell me. I couldn't even look him in the eyes when he was asking me out, I said yes, but I wasn't looking at him. I got this sick feeling in my stomach that makes me want to throw up, it's crazy. Anyway, he walked me to the bus stop, it was so awkward, when I started dating my ex, it wasn't even awkward we were laughing, joking around and stuff. So I really don't know what to do, I want to give it a go, but at the same time I don't. What do I do?

[XxnonaxX]

Hmm well if you don't want to go through with it mayb you should just step back and look at the picture before making a decision. You seem awfully confused and it's not really a good idea to get into a relationship when some part of you feels a bit sick about it. Just stay back, chill and think about it a little without pressure, to make sure your decision on what to do next it reasonable to u

[Homegirl 50]

Why do you have to go with him? Can't you just talk to a guy without being his girlfriend?
Tell the guy you don't want to go out.
Learning to speak up for yourself starts now. If you can't do that, you should not be dating.

[teensportychick]

Step back and take a deep breath... look at him without your friends opinions getting in the way. Do you still like him? Is he a good kid? Can you see him in your future? If yes to those questions then go for it but if not then just get to know him a little more Don't let anyine force you into doing anything