[teensportychick]

I was wondering if anyone thinks my ex thinks about me like I think about him? I like lay in bed at night and think about everything we did and all of the times we kissed right where I was laying... I looked at our old Facebook messages and I can't bring myself to deleting them... Do you think he ever thinks about what we had? He was the one who ended so I don't know if that helps but... I don't know... And since everyone needs to know how old I am, I am a sophomore in highscool and so is he

[Homegirl 50]

Since he is the one who broke up with you, he probably is not having those thoughts. How long had you dated and why did he break up with you? When did you break up?
At some point you are going to have to delete those messages before it becomes a real anchor to you moving on. You don't want this to become an obsession

[dontknownuthin]

I'd guess he has moved on but everyone occasionally thinks of past relationships, I think. You sound a bit more obsessive about it and should probably find something else to think about. A high school boyfriend is normally a temporary arrangement. You'll date other boys - probably several of them - before you find "the" one.

I'd suggest you get some good books or something so you can distract yourself when you start thinking about this boy. You don't want to start getting all pathetic about the guy, right? You'll bore your friends, and just keep yourself from being open to whatever great things life has in store for you next. When your obsessing about this guy, you won't notice the next, better guy who comes along.

[teensportychick]

Thank you you! :) I was just at home sick thinking about it and thought I had to get it out there... it was the last thing holding me back... I was just kidding myself thinking he was thinking about me... I know its time to mive on and find a WAY better guy! Which won't be that hard ;)