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    Nov 11, 2012, 02:56 PM
    Find your birth mother
    Searching for my birth mother.the birth certificate says I was born Nov. 1 1970.. timothy jay smith ,waynesville Missouri , Pulaski county memorial hospital... I don't have much info... accept that it was a done kind of under the table. It was a girl who was 15 or 16 at the time ,on fort lynard army base in Missouri .She went to the hospital under the name of Barbara sue Rudder. Her parents made her give me up for adoption and there was an arrangement made through some guy named lucky to give me over to the real Barbara sue Rudder after she (the girl 15 or 16) got out of the hospital. I guess Things were done different back then ,lol. My brother say he remembers some guy in a uniform and a lady bringing me home and giving me to my mom. I can seem to get any info. Out of my mom she says she doesn't have any more info than that. I don't know if I beleave her. Does anyone else have a similar story?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 03:24 PM
    That sounds VERY suspicious.

    Your mother might not have more information because it sounds like what was done was actually done illegally.

    You may have to hire a licensed private investigator to get to the bottom of this story.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 03:09 PM
    Sounds sketchy
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    Nov 12, 2012, 05:37 PM
    No things were not done differently back then, What you described is completely illegal and was at the time. Your mother ( lady that raised you) can be guilty of some serious crimes if this is the case.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 06:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 8track View Post
    sounds sketchy
    Yeah I know...
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    Nov 12, 2012, 06:39 PM
    Yeah I know
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    Nov 12, 2012, 06:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    No things were not done differently back then, What you described is completely illegal and was at the time. Your mother ( lady that raised you) can be guilty of some serious crimes if this is the case.
    Yeah don't want her to get in any trouble... I just want some answers
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