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Nov 10, 2012, 11:36 PM
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Boyfriend help chat
Well there are two guys that I like and one I knew for 10 year and then one that just meet. But I don't want to ruin are friendship to stop WHAT SHOULD I DO.
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:39 PM
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Be friends with both of them. You are maybe 13 or 14 or so?
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:41 PM
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Well I want to go out with them both those
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:45 PM
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Well what if you want to go out with both of them??
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:45 PM
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Well, then, go out with both of them. There's no law that says you can't. Only your parents can tell you no.
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:50 PM
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Well that is not right those plzz tell me what one I need to know
Because I love them both lots
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:54 PM
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Well that is not right and I love them I can't cheat on them that will hrut me bad
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:57 PM
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That's not cheating. You have total freedom to date X on Friday night, Y on Saturday night, and go out for ice cream with Z on Sunday afternoon. You are not exclusive with any of them, and can date all of them. How else does a girl weed out the players and guys who don't fit her requirements?
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Nov 10, 2012, 11:59 PM
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Well I only want to go out with but I don't know
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:02 AM
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For pete's sake! Go out with both of them until one plucks at your heartstrings and then you can be exclusive with him -- or maybe a third guy will come along who is a better choice. Now is the time to date and learn about different personalities.
Of course, DO NOT sleep with any of them!!
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Pets Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:03 AM
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We can't tell you who to date and who not to date. You have to choose.
You said you want to date both of them. When we told you to go ahead, you told us that it's not right. So pick one.
How old are you? Do you even have your parents permission to date?
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:06 AM
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Well I know not to do that because that well lead to something that I won't like at ALL but...
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted by pinkpixy909
well i know not to do that because that well lead to something that i wont like at ALL but .....
Such as what? Young people get too serious too soon and be exclusive with someone and end up having babies with partners they eventually break up with because they have no clue what kind of a person fits well and is a good partner.
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:09 AM
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Yes and I am14 ty but I don't know what one those because bad thing happen with the guy I knew for 10 years he could say the things that I don't want to know about
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Pets Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted by pinkpixy909
well i know not to do that because that well lead to something that i wont like at ALL but .....
But what?
Look, this is not a question that you should even have to ask. It's a no brainer.
If you are allowed to date, and you like two different guys, but you don't want to date both of them, then you figure out which one you want to date and date him. It's really not a brain teaser.
There's only one person that can give you the answer to your question, and that's you. So think about it, and figure it out. Posting here won't give you any answers to this particular question, as it's a matter of choice. Your choice.
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Pets Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted by pinkpixy909
yes and i am14 ty but i dont know what one those because bad thing happen with the guy i knew for 10 years he could say the things that i dont want to know about
Then don't pick him.
Seriously, we can't make this decision for you. You have to be mature enough to choose. If you're not, then you're not ready to date anyone.
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Dating & Teen Expert
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Nov 11, 2012, 07:55 AM
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I don't think you are ready to date period.
Just have fun and hang out with both of them. Neither of them have to be your boy friend. They can be your friend. As you both get older you will know which one you want to date.
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