[roach5478]

So me and my ex girlfriend were dating for almost 4 months, I know its not that long but I could tell it was something special, we didn't really argue and we just clicked with just about everything. But last week she calls me and tells me that over the past week that her feelings have changed for me and she wanted to break up. So we did and I really couldn't wrap my head around as to why she had lost all feelings for me, cause I really didn't believe it because, just a day or two before she broke up with me she was[planning and telling me what she wanted to do for her birthday which is a few weeks away and also planning on going to a concert which is a month away. So I didn't really see how if she didn't care about me anymore why should we do that. So I talked to her the other day which was a week after we broke up and asked her how she just doesn't care about me anymore and she said she didn't know and just needed to be single for a while. So I said OK I can see that, cause she really hasn't been single for along deal of time for a while, but she still insisted she didn't have any feelings at all anymore and I asked her if she would consider getting back together after you figure your stuff out from being single, and she said she didn't think so. At first she wanted to remain friends, but now she doesn't want to talk or anything at all,I know there isn't someone else or anything like that. But what should I do, I know not to talk to her anymore and give her space, but could she really just have lost all feelings for me or is she just trying to use that because she just wants to be single, and how long should I wait until I try to talk to her again and is there really any chance of getting her back

[Homegirl 50]

You leave her alone and if there is any conversation she is the one to start it. It could be that after 4 months, she is just not as in to you as before or as she says she wants to be single.

[Mattdyd10003]

Just leave her alone leave it at that