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lighta1000 · Nov 7, 2012, 09:27 PM

I liked this guy for 7 years now ,and I just can't stop liking him because I'm just to close to him and when I try to back away he always ends up bringing me back in. Should I wait and see what happens ?

Homegirl 50 · Nov 7, 2012, 09:36 PM

Is this the same guy you asking about last month? He likes your friend. Stop hanging around him. You can control that.

teensportychick · Nov 9, 2012, 11:23 PM

Well I think you should go with what your heart tells you... but first think about it... there is a very fine line between really liking your best friend and mixing those feelings up and thinking you like them as something more... just be careful because the situation you are in could end up ruining your relationships with both of them... but on the other hand if they start dating you are going to feel like the third wheel and you are going to be sad around them... so just think about all your options and maybe talk to your other friend (the girl) And just talk throug it with her :) Good luck:)

lighta1000 · Nov 11, 2012, 04:07 PM

Originally Posted by teensportychick

Well i think you should go with what your heart tells you...but first think about it.... there is a very fine line between really liking your best friend and mixing those feelings up and thinking you like them as something more....just be careful because the situation you are in could end up ruining your relationships with both of them...but on the other hand if they start dating you are going to feel like the third wheel and you are going to be sad around them....so just think about all your options and maybe talk to your other friend (the girl) And just talk throug it with her :) Good luck:)

I don't want to be a third wheel because I experienced it before and it SUCKS :( So do I stop hanging out with them? And I did talk it through with her and she just tells me that its better to move on

Homegirl 50 · Nov 11, 2012, 04:10 PM

It's better to move on. Stop hanging out with them.

lighta1000 · Nov 11, 2012, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

It's better to move on. Stop hanging out with them.

Why? :S

Homegirl 50 · Nov 11, 2012, 04:53 PM

Because you don't want to be a third wheel, because what is the point of hanging around with them?
Do what you want.

lighta1000 · Nov 11, 2012, 05:16 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Because you don't want to be a third wheel, because what is the point of hanging around with them?
Do what you want.

True, thank you for your advice

teensportychick · Nov 12, 2012, 10:26 AM

Im really sorry that sucks :/ It is a really hard situation to be in... And I know that it is impossible to controle who you like... Try maybe not hanging around them for a while and try and find a new guy? I don't really now what else would make you feel better... Sorry this just really sucks

lighta1000 · Nov 12, 2012, 05:04 PM

Originally Posted by teensportychick

Im really sorry that sucks :/ It is a really hard situation to be in...And i know that it is impossible to controle who you like...Try maybe not hanging around them for a while and try and find a new guy? I dont really now what else would make you feel better....Sorry this just really sucks

I know it really does suck. But I know I can't stop hanging out with them because they will suspect something is wrong. I have done it before and they didn't take it so well. I guess I'm going to just have to face the fact, that there will never be anything between us even though we are bestfriends. I will learn to live with it. Thank you for your support <3

teensportychick · Nov 12, 2012, 06:32 PM

You will get through it. Just keep your head high and live your life without worrying about boys... eventually everything will work its self out and what is supposed to happen, will :)