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    sweetpie88 Posts: 104, Reputation: 2
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    Nov 7, 2012, 08:12 PM
    Is it a bad idea to hang out with a male co worker as friends
    I have a male co worker and we usually have a little chit chat everyday at work. He does like me and has asked me out but I nicely told him that I wasn't interested in him like that and only see us being friends. It seems like he respects that. He wants to hang out which I don't mind from time to time but is this all right and how do I make sure it's not going to be a date?
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    Nov 7, 2012, 08:28 PM
    He wants to hang out hoping it will turn to more. You are just leading him on, giving him hope that there is a chance.
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    Nov 7, 2012, 08:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by racer38 View Post
    He wants to hang out hoping it will turn to more. You are just leading him on, giving him hope that there is a chance.
    I figured he is hoping it will turn into something more. I could never lead someone on. So are you saying it's best not to hang out with him at all?
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    Nov 8, 2012, 03:19 PM
    I would say don't hang out with him. He will never move on in a relationship if he always thinks he has a chance with you. It may not be easy but if you have no interest in him, don't hang out with him.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 07:05 PM
    Keep it professional, he's a co-worker.
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