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    Nov 7, 2012, 11:25 AM
    Why do I feel and sometimes sense that everybody hates me!
    Every time I think about myself and about others , also about my relationship to them
    I found that every single body :
    Lie at me when they say they care
    Call me or talk to me only when they need me
    Why is this happening to me!!
    While I'm just I young boy !
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    Nov 7, 2012, 11:33 AM
    Is it possible you are misunderstanding? Please give examples.

    How old are you?
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    Nov 7, 2012, 11:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Is it possible you are misunderstanding? Please give examples.

    How old are you?
    I'm 17.5 years old
    I prefer to talk on Facebook.. but if you don't its OK

    I'm at the first year at university
    And every body from my experience > I feel that they hate me or at least no body likes me !
    I saw that they don't behave or act with me as they acts with my friends... you know... their behave with me is just telling me that they are lying at me
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    Nov 7, 2012, 01:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ananhawamdeh View Post
    I prefer to talk on Facebook.. but if you don't its OK
    My preference has nothing to do with it. A site rule is that conversations that begin here stay here, on this site.
    I saw that they don't behave or act with me as they acts with my friends... you know... their behave with me is just telling me that they are lying at me
    Perhaps your impression is incorrect? How do they act with you as opposed to your friends?
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    Nov 10, 2012, 10:53 PM
    For example : they say to me hey... and then they go
    But with other guys : they talk to each other for along time
    And so , I stay lonely all the time , and no body talks to me
    I tried to interact with them , but they kind of ignoring me!!
    Because of this I will try to leave the university and just stay home !
    I just think its enough "I do not need any more compliments"
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    Nov 10, 2012, 11:16 PM
    But I like you and like to talk with you!
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    Nov 10, 2012, 11:49 PM
    Thanks a lot
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    Nov 10, 2012, 11:59 PM
    So tell me about yourself. What foods do you like? Do you like to read? What's your favorite subject in school? ThenI will tell yoju about me. :)
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:07 AM
    I don't prefer some food on others... I like all of them :P :)
    I like to read about psychological stories and advice's .
    I finished school , and now I'm at my first year at university .
    I used to play football when I was at school , but now I don't .
    I live with new guys away from home , I see my family every 2 months > but its not a reason of sadness .
    I love to play football games on computer .
    Unfortunately I'm not doing good at university because I don't study well !
    That's all what I can say about myself...
    Its just another loser in this world .
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:10 AM
    Make flashcards for yourself for your various subjects and study them every day. There are lots of tricks like that for studying and remembering information.

    Do you like samosas or baklava?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:14 AM
    I will try to study as you said...
    But please if you have any tricks please send them please :0

    They both delicious, but I think I would prefer samosas... what about you ?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:19 AM
    Samosas for lunch (with green chutney or maybe mango chutney) and baklava for dessert. Yum!!

    I will think of more tricks. What courses are you taking?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:21 AM
    Thanks again
    I take : anatomy , fundamentals of nursing , chemistry , biology and english :)
    Do you think that I will be a good nurse... " boy nurse hhh " - from my personality...
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ananhawamdeh View Post
    thanks again
    i take : anatomy , fundamentals of nursing , chemistry , biology and english :)
    do you think that i will be a good nurse ... " boy nurse hhh " - from my personality ...
    Yes, I think you will be an EXCELLENT nurse. You are sensitive and like people and are caring. And the world needs more male nurses. I had a male nurse when I had cancer surgery. He was from Africa and was a total delight. And because he was male, he had some skills different from the female nurses -- he had more strength and was more of a problem solver.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:30 AM
    I'm sorry for the surgery... I hope you OK now
    That's a good news for me
    Then I will try as hard as I can in order to success in the university :)
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:35 AM
    And I want you to post updates now and then so I know you are doing well.

    The surgery was three years ago, and I am doing fine now. I met lots of wonderful doctors and nurses and aides. You are going into an in-demand profession. Will you specialize in anything?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:39 AM
    I don't know where to post the updates...
    I think after a BA degree in nursing , I will continue into the master degree...
    I don't know if I can be a general doctor , but if I can , I will take the chance :)
    Do you have any other ideas ?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:44 AM
    My nephew became a male nurse and then a nurse practitioner and then an assistant anesthesiologist. He slowly did this over ten years as he gained experience and figured out what he liked to do.

    You can always post on this thread.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:51 AM
    That's awesome !
    I hope someday I will meet you all :)
    OK sure I will
    Do you have family / brothers...
    Tell me about yourself
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    Nov 11, 2012, 12:55 AM
    It's almost two a.m. in Chicago where I live, so I must go to bed. I will talk with you soon, though, and give you more study ideas. :)

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