[stanmatt]

Here is the story:
My friend introduced me to this wonderful beautiful girl, via Facebook, 24 years old (I am turning 27 at the end of this month), we started chatting then upgraded to texting then decided to meet and hangout at a museum. We had a great time probably hung out for 6 hours after the museum we walked around had dinner she was pretty comfortable eating a lot then she treated me a nice Japanese ice shake which was lovely. She texted me the day after that it was really nice to finally meet me. We constantly text sometimes she tells me about her day or asks how my day was.

My problem is that she told my friend that I am good catch as a friend but not really thinking about dating right now. I am not sure now about this because she is excited to meet me again and hangout at a nice new park with nice bike trails and taxi boats.

Is there a way for me during this meeting to go out of the friend zone, by the way she doesn't know my friend told me about being not interested in dating right now.

[Fr_Chuck]

Stay friends, keep gong out and if it is going to happen, time will get it to change by itself

[stanmatt]

How frequent should we talk/text

[Homegirl 50]

I would ask her if she would consider getting to know each other better and see where it goes.

[talaniman]

I think I would just keep going as it is with no pressure or expectations, just enjoy the getting to know each other.

Just go with the flow. That's what its all about whether it works or not. What's the hurry? Never be afraid of the friend zone, you miss half the fun with worrying about it.

And don't give up your social life just to get out of the "friend zone". Make sure she isn't your ONLY "friend" you enjoy having fun with.

[stanmatt]

Thanks Tal, yeah of course I have been hanging out a lot. Also half of the girls I met during speed dating likes me

[talaniman]

Its easy enjoying being single when you know how to have some fun.