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    Sep 29, 2012, 11:56 AM
    my girlfriend talking to his x husband
    hi ever never imagine that I will write this to the internet but I need an answer to this question that keep me bothering

    I have a girlfriend now we already in a relationship for about 6 months. We met on the social network FACEBOOK. We chat almost day and night until we become bf/gf on the internet, I love her so much and she said she love me too. But the problem is he have a 2 children. But I never bothered to this things because I love her so much even she have already a children. The things bothered me most is she talking to her former husband.my girlfriend saying to me that she want only to talk to his son that lives to her former husband. But how should I know that she never love anymore her x if she keep telling the story about her x to me even I never asking about him? I need an answer

    my girlfriend and I living with each other and we set ourself to marry first quarter of 2013
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    Sep 29, 2012, 12:34 PM
    They have children together do there will always be a connection, but anyway, how else is she going to talk to her kids. Does she not see them through a legal custody agreement?
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    Sep 29, 2012, 12:50 PM
    She has children, and those children have a father. When people with children divorce they divorce each other, no the children. Fact is, they'll always be in contact, because they have to be, for the children.

    If you can't handle being with a woman that was married, and has children with another man, then you need to figure that out before you continue this relationship.

    From what you wrote, it doesn't sound like you can accept that she was married and had kids before she facebooked with you.
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    Sep 29, 2012, 02:16 PM
    Actually they are not married.. the two of them only live in partners for 2yrs. Don't you think that the guy is nothing to her anymore? Why he keeps telling me about that guy? And she is happy when she do that
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    Sep 29, 2012, 09:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jakarusuzuki View Post
    actually they are not married.. the two of them only live in partners for 2yrs. dont you think that the guy is nothing to her anymore?? why he keeps telling me about that guy?? and she is happy when she do that
    You said ex husband. An ex husband is someone you were married to. But, that doesn't really matter. What does matter is that they have children together. Because of that they will always have a relationship. They have to, for the children.

    What does she tell you about him?

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