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Sep 14, 2012, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by tianame
i love him u know... i can't imagine him with another girl..... but i just don't know if i can let him go..... i guess il just have to..... and i even told him that what he did to me ..i just hope that it doesnt boomerang back to u... but he was like who knows i might boomerang back to u....
No you don't want him back. The affection that still lingers in your body is what's telling you not to let go. You need to set that aside and let him go for good! He's playing you and if you keep letting love blind you, you will keep getting played by him.
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Sep 14, 2012, 07:46 AM
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Thanks... il try... for the good... I hope he regret it... for using me for d whole damn year...
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Sep 14, 2012, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by tianame
thanks........... il try .......... for the good..... i hope he regret it.... for using me for d whole damn year.........
It shouldn't matter if he regrets it or not, he's none of your concern anymore. Find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
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Sep 15, 2012, 01:41 AM
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Ll try... thanks..
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Sep 15, 2012, 02:02 AM
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Agree, you don't worry if he will regreat it, he won't most likely, or he may 30 years from now when he thinks about "what ifs" in his life.
You have to worry and take care of you. And do what is best for you. And stop worry about him, no wanting him to suffer, you need to not even care what he is doing or thinking.
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Sep 16, 2012, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
Agree, you don't worry if he will regreat it, he won't most likely, or he may 30 years from now when he thinks about "what ifs" in his life.
You have to worry and take care of you. And do what is best for you. And stop worry about him, no wanting him to suffer, you need to not even care what he is doing or thinking.
See the thing is he is not clear with whatever decision he is making... first he told me he want her back... n then after two days he texted me saying "no m nt turning back... m just taking my time to forget her and wen i am a better person il be back wt u ..... " this is just hanging me in d air... I don't get him and... hes a bit religious so he goes about by saying that we should leave it to god... like trust him and he wll take us to d right person... I don't understand if m there right in front of him why is he confusing me and himself...
he left me and i feel like begging him and textng him all the time ....
I know I sound so desperate but I can't forget him,. I want to get in touch with him and bring back d old memories... I want him to intitiate d contact... I just can't forget him
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Sep 16, 2012, 06:15 AM
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Don't lower your pride to a guy who doesn't want you. Don't text him or beg for his love. He doest deserve your love and I'm pretty sure he doesn't want it. Try to move on even though its hard
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Sep 16, 2012, 06:22 AM
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Just forget him it will just make both of u guys further apart
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Sep 16, 2012, 07:35 AM
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Is there any way to make him realise he is losing me?
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Sep 16, 2012, 08:35 AM
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You need to move on and not look back over and over again. That's how we get smarter! Don't worry about what he said or did. It's part of your past. Life should be lived looking out the front window, not the rear view mirror.
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Sep 17, 2012, 07:07 AM
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Ok girl, I know people giving advice is easy, offen when we are not the on going though The problem. I know u love this guy so much. But think about it! One year! If he really loves you could he really be doing this? Could he be betrayed you? No if you care about someone so much u don't do anything to hurt them. I feel like his confused and he doesn't know what he wants. Stop talking to him for a period then if he calls he really cares if he doesn't. Move on. And if he goes back to that ex of his trust me it won't work out at all. Ex is a ex for a reason, he will regret in the end.
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Sep 17, 2012, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Chillcup1
Ok girl, I know poeple giving advice is easy, offen when we are not the on going though The problem. I know u love this guy so much. But think about it! One year! If he really loves you could he really be doing this? Could he be betrayed you? No if you care about someone so much u don't do anything to hurt them. I feel like his confused and he doesn't know what he wants. Stop talking to him for a period of time then if he calls he really cares if he doesn't. Move on. And if he goes back to that ex of his trust me it won't work out at all. Ex is a ex for a reason, he will regret in the end.
Thank you that is just so inspiring... thanks a lot...
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Sep 17, 2012, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted by tianame
thankyou that is just so inspiring..... thanks a lot....
Don't worry we are all heart broken in here haha
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Sep 17, 2012, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Chillcup1
Don't worry we are all heart broken in here haha
Haha awwkhay !
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Sep 24, 2012, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted by stanmatt
How long have you been broken up? Always think first and explore.
Three weeks now..
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