[Jessie29718]

I am 20 years old and I am completely torn on what to do. I met this guy in October of last year we have been talking off and on since. He compliments me quite often even when I go into his work. We never dated we just quit talking because I didn't feel we were on the same level at that time, (although I rushed him a little). There is another guy that I have been talking to for almost 3 months now.. I really like him and his family and my family likes him. However, I don't feel like he cares or respects me at all because I get a lot of rude comments and hardly ever a nice one. Since I met this guy the first guy text me that he wanted to give us a shot, I passed it up for this new guy since the first time didn't work out. But now I feel that I have made the wrong choice. I really like this new guy I just don't feel appreciated at all. I am so torn. What do I do?

[odinn7]

The new guy treats you poorly and disrespects you but you really like him... odd, isn't it? Have you thought about why this is?

I have to wonder why you need either guy? If you are treated this way by the new guy and you don't feel it will work with the other one, then why not just be single? Why jump into something?

[Pettisbel]

It will not be nice to fall in love with love. So, I suggest you follow your heart and not get into a relationship with a guy you're not truly interested in. Open your eyes, you'll find more guys that are a better fit than these two. Good luck.