[pillowchan]

I'm black and have very disgusting ugly hair I hate it with a passion. I'm getting super pissed every time I think about it. It just won't stay silky smooth like my sisters she has pretty long hair and it stays together. I can't try different products I seriously can't afford anything. I try and use whatever in this house but it is no use. I don't know how to get it soft and smooth like hers.She got a perm like 2 months ago and her hair is beautiful. I got mine the same time and mines simply a mess. Doing the same thing she does. I try and do things on those hair care sites but nothing works. I don't know how to manage this ing hair. I'm constantly crying and I get so depressed.. I just want to be her and get hair like hers so I can finally look pretty. Not fat, disgusting, ugly and worthless like this hair of mine. I just want to cut it all off and disappear forever. Can someone help me with my hair this overwhelming me...

Yes I know this is more about hair but its one of the main problems I have.

[Savanitta]

Washing too much your hair add frizz
Blow drying you hair add frizz
Curling iron add frizz
Before washing your hair massage your scalp with olive oil, leave it in for 30 mn
Wash your hair only twice a week with warm water, followed by a moisturizing or anti frizz conditioner.
Rinse your hair with warm water followed by cold water, and add a rinse with apple cider vinegar.
Do not use blow dry nor curling iron.
Use only large comb to comb your hair starting from ends.
Trim ends as often as possible. And moisturize you ends daily with leave in serums or crème.
If you need to wash your hair more often DO Not use shampoo ,only cold water.
Hope all this will help.
Please be gentle to your hair.

[clairemsmith]

Oh sweetie, don't be so hard on yourself! Maybe if you really hate your hair you could put a weave on or something?

[Savanitta]

The best way to style your hair and this may sound old fashion but you can have pretty hair by using regular rollers.
If you hair a long, when they are humid almost dry, NOT WET, roll them twisted on top of your head, wait until they dry before removing pins,
Repeat section 1) Before washing your hair every week...
By trying to love your hair instead of hating it you will reap rewards.
They certainly have something nice other then ordinary take good care of it,
Kind regards
PS: have you thought about using a 10mn gloss? It gives a lot of shine and straighten at the same time.