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    #21

    Aug 17, 2012, 07:43 PM
    Why not?
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    Aug 17, 2012, 07:52 PM
    It's time to make a call --

    To report a possible case of child abuse or neglect, call toll-free (Montana) 1 (866) 820-5437.
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    Aug 17, 2012, 07:58 PM
    Obviously there were not bruises and marks, or the police would do something.
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    Aug 17, 2012, 08:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sharbono2013 View Post
    He dont wana get involved hes 90. And i bought the horses with my 4-h steer money.

    You're being abused and running away and your Grandfather's reaction is to buy you a car?

    Problems with the whole story.
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    Aug 18, 2012, 01:48 AM
    I'm going to backtrack. (Did a response to me get deleted, because I don't see profanity directed at me?)
    You do act like a teen who has had a lot handed to you, and you have a typical teen attitude that something like valuable horses that YOU bought with YOUR 4H money are all yours, when you never would have earned that money were it not for a lot of help. Help you say you never got. Steers? What steers? Your parents smoked weed while you ran a farm? You are leaping right over a lot of basic questions, and your sense of entitlement shines through when you say you never got help with homework. I was a straight A student and never got one shred of help from parents, and so were a lot of other people.

    On the other hand it does appear that you grew up in a loveless and extra disfunctional home. You are fighting mad at your parents and the world out of hurt, you get bullied in school (why? I assume you are as belligerent there as here?) and you want advice here but won't take any that you don't want to hear. Gee, I said LEAVE that house and you won't! Why, I'll bet it's because you don't want to give up what you have, and it's not just horses. (PS: not only did the steers cost so that you could buy horses, but keeping horses ain't cheap and who pays for that?)

    And I have a feeling you weren't 17 the last time the police brought you home.

    So you have a rotten family as many of us do or did, and we can't do anything about them. But you won't do anything about yourself to get out of there.
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    Aug 18, 2012, 06:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    I'm going to backtrack. (Did a response to me get deleted, because I don't see profanity directed at me?)
    You do act like a teen who has had a lot handed to you, and you have a typical teen attitude that something like valuable horses that YOU bought with YOUR 4H money are all yours, when you never would have earned that money were it not for a lot of help. Help you say you never got. Steers? What steers? Your parents smoked weed while you ran a farm? You are leaping right over a lot of basic questions, and your sense of entitlement shines through when you say you never got help with homework. I was a straight A student and never got one shred of help from parents, and so were a lot of other people.

    On the other hand it does appear that you grew up in a loveless and extra disfunctional home. You are fighting mad at your parents and the world out of hurt, you get bullied in school (why? I assume you are as belligerent there as here?) and you want advice here but won't take any that you don't want to hear. Gee, I said LEAVE that house and you won't! Why, I'll bet it's because you don't want to give up what you have, and it's not just horses. (PS: not only did the steers cost so that you could buy horses, but keeping horses ain't cheap and who pays for that?)

    And I have a feeling you weren't 17 the last time the police brought you home.

    So you have a rotten family as many of us do or did, and we can't do anything about them. But you won't do anything about yourself to get out of there.

    Yes, the post was removed.

    And I'm still waiting to see why family members haven't stepped in.

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