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    Aug 15, 2012, 04:52 PM
    Yo... I'm getting mixed messages
    Look I was in relationship last few months I have loved my boyfriend and he loved me bk.. We used to talk every moment... Hmm then some problems just happened and we broke up.. Then we bcame a best friends.. And then we broke up our friendship and we didn't talked for a while.. And month ago I sent him a message saying that I missed my best friend.. ( I really missed my love not my beat friend) when he saw the message he called me and we talked and we became a friends again talking every moment... But suddenly he stops replaying me.. he ignored me.. And 2 weeks ago I saw him and he ignored me... yesterday he sent me a message.. He wanted to talk to me but I told him I don't know you to talk to u (:... Please helppp mee.. Is Wat I did right?
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    Aug 15, 2012, 04:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
    Look i was in relationship last few months i have loved my bf and he loved me bk .. We used to talk every moment ... Hmm then some problems just happend and we broke up .. Then we bcame a best friends .. And then we broke up our friendship and we didnt talked for a while .. And month ago i sent him a msg saying that i missed my best friend..( i really missed my love not my beat friend) when he saw the msg he called me and we talked and we became a friends again talking every moment... But suddenly he stops replaying me .. he ignored me .. And 2 weeks ago i saw him and he ignored me ...yesterday he sent me a msg .. He wanted to talk to me but i told him i dont know you to talk to u (: ... Plz helppp mee .. Is Wat i did right?

    Yo, look - you are both playing games. You sent him a message, he responded but he stopped "replaying you" (I don't know what that means), then he contacted you and you said you didn't want to talk to him.

    If you wanted to resume the relationship, yes, what you did was wrong. If you don't care, what you did was right.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Yo, look - you are both playing games. You sent him a message, he responded but he stopped "replaying you" (I don't know what that means), tehn he contacted you and you said you didn't want to talk to him.

    If you wanted to resume the relationship, yes, what you did was wrong. If you don't care, what you did was right.
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    But I really care about him but ignored me , am not a toy when he ever wants talk to me and when he doesn't want to ,he is just ignoring me :/
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
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    But i really care about him but ignored me , am not a toy when he ever wants talk to me and when he doesnt want to ,he is just ignoring me :/
    He ignored*
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:11 PM
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    He ignored*
    Wat should I do now?:/
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
    Wat should i do now?:/

    You can/should do nothing - he wanted to talk to you. You said, "Not now."

    That pretty much says it all.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You can/should do nothing - he wanted to talk to you. You said, "Not now."

    That pretty much says it all.

    I said "not now" to let him know that am worth it! And when I told him idont want to talk to you he just said "ok u even don't know me ,good night"
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
    I said "not now" to let him know that am worth it! And when i told him idont want to talk to you he just said "ok u even don't know me ,good night"

    I have no idea what "to let him know that am worth it" means.

    You said you didn't want to talk with him. He was okay with your decision.

    Again - you are playing games. Sometimes games backfire. This time the game did.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I have no idea what "to let him know that am worth it" means.

    You said you didn't want to talk with him. He was okay with your decision.

    Again - you are playing games. Sometimes games backfire. This time the game did.
    What u mean we are playing games!
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    Aug 15, 2012, 05:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
    What u mean we are playing games!
    You stopped talking. You sent him a message that you missed him.

    He called you and you "became friends again."

    They he stopped "replaying" you - I have no idea what this means. [ed. Note. "replying to me"]

    You saw him and he ignored you.

    Then he contacted you and said he wanted to talk to you.

    You said you didn't want to talk to him.

    He didn't believe the game of "I don't want to talk to you" when, apparently, you did want to talk to you.

    Both of you are acting like children. You said you didn't want to talk to him. He believed you.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You stopped talking. You sent him a message that you missed him.

    He called you and you "became friends again."

    They he stopped "replaying" you - I have no idea what this means. [ed. note. "replying to me"]

    You saw him and he ignored you.

    Then he contacted you and said he wanted to talk to you.

    You said you didn't want to talk to him.

    He didn't believe the game of "I don't want to talk to you" when, apparently, you did want to talk to you.

    Both of you are acting like children. You said you didn't want to talk to him. He believed you.
    Look first of all I meant "he didnt replay me bk" and we didn't talked to each others and I sent him a message we were in a fight I sent him the message saying"i aplogize about every thing an i miss you" after we became friends again he ignored me and stopped replying me
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You stopped talking. You sent him a message that you missed him.

    He called you and you "became friends again."

    They he stopped "replaying" you - I have no idea what this means. [ed. note. "replying to me"]

    You saw him and he ignored you.

    Then he contacted you and said he wanted to talk to you.

    You said you didn't want to talk to him.

    He didn't believe the game of "I don't want to talk to you" when, apparently, you did want to talk to you.

    Both of you are acting like children. You said you didn't want to talk to him. He believed you.
    Look first of all I meant "he didnt replay me bk" and we didn't talked to each others and I sent him a message we were in a fight I sent him the message saying"i apologize about every thing an i miss you" after we became friends again he ignored me and stopped replying me
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonia tezder View Post
    Look first of all i meant "he didnt replay me bk" and we didnt talked to each others and i sent him a msg we were in a fight i sent him the msg saying"i aplogize about every thing an i miss you" after we became friends again he ignored me and stopped replying me
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:15 PM
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    Sorry, but this isn't a chat board. It's a Q and A board. I've advised you to the best of my ability.

    I still don't know what he didn't replay you means - but it doesn't really matter.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Sorry, but this isn't a chat board. It's a Q and A board. I've advised you to the best of my ability.

    I still don't know what he didn't replay you means - but it doesn't really matter.
    That's what she is saying in her own cryptic way -- "replay me" = "reply to me."

    (Chat and texting tutorials begin Friday morning at 7 a.m. Coffee will be served. Bring your own danish.)
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    Aug 15, 2012, 06:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    That's what she is saying in her own cryptic way -- "replay me" = "reply to me."

    (Chat and texting tutorials begin Friday morning at 7 a.m. Coffee will be served. Bring your own danish.)
    Omg I mean Reply to me!! Ok anyway thank you so much ;D

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