[Connorr]

Hello My names Connor!

Im very shy and I get very shy when I talk to girls but not with boys. I don't want to be gay! Most of the kids in my class have got girlfriends but I get upset that I don't. I think I'm addicted to porn! Sometimes GAY! And that really scares me! I have aspergus symdrome and I worry about me being gay and if I fancy a boy in my class ( but I don't but I don't want to but I don't know) I just get really scared and I don't want to be gay! Please help! All I want in life is to be straight and have a wife and kids. Sometimes I think I like might like the males sexuraly organs but I don't! I sometimes think I'm crazy! Please help me I'm CONFUSED!

[Tuscany]

How old are you?

[Ash123]

Your hormones are raging. You are shy. You are getting "off" on anything and everything. I assume you are young. So normal.

Counterpoint: if you have always viewed women's bodies with indifference you may be gay. If you dream about men and their bodies you may be gay.

If you are just trying to get your rocks off in theis new age of the internet I'm sure the stranger the better - and you may think you're gay. Forget the internet stuff... who do you notice in the hallway?

[Salky]

I personally don't think your gay. I agree with ash123 I really think your hormones are running amuck. The more you get frightened by it the worse it will get. I look at other guys, just to see what they look like the same as a women looks at another women. That doesn't mean she's gay. I worked and been around allot of gay people. Majority of them are very well dressed good looking guys, but that doesn't mean I wanted to jump into bed with them. I am sure allot of very sextually active men and women have thought about being with there own, but does that make you gay I don't think so. I think it is called more being hornier than hell! I look at porn probably as much as anyone else does ,and I don't shy away from gay porn, I have been married for 30 yrs and have 3 children neither does my wife shy away. I think you need to calm down and get a good piece and you'll be fine. I know for a fact if you were gay you would be gay.

[nindzha]

Hey don't be scared this are only hormons and unbalanced energy, :)
It is not seldom what you are describing. When I was in high school I have seen boys looking at me like "i was a girl" and I am NOT kidding. Lol (I only noticed that because I was observent)
I think this normaly starts when you get of the main stream of puberty, around 16. When you start searching your identity.


PS: U mentioned you have aspergus symdrome, that means you are probably good at numbers :) Do have an emotion for every number you imagine, do you feel anything when you imagine numbers. I hope I am not to direct.
Thanks

[JacintaBlue2004]

Don't fight what your feeling... maybe you ar bisexual... or just really horny.

[RAYSCAR57]

First there's nothing wrong with being gay... Second just because you watch gay porn does make you gay.. I watch gay porn and I'm straight.. You may be really horny and you don't know yet what turns you on... Relax know that when you do find your sexual prefference don't deny it or be scared of it... Straight,gay or bisexual its all OK..

[zyzyxy]

First of all speaking to a girl is more scary than having to give a speech in front of the whole school, in the auditorium standing on top of a three legged chair, stark naked with yellow snot running out of your nose down your face and on to the 3 legged chair. So I wouldn't worry about that too much.

Secondly stop the porno on the internet. Just stop it.


Thirdly don't worry 'bout the gay thing, You have plenty of time to figure out stuff like that. In the mean time put your mind to excelling in school, and getting a career on track, then after that you'll not have to question your sexuality because you'll know who you are.

And again stop the porn, and get to work on those grades.
Hope this helps a little
Zy