[beenazafar]

I am a 23 year girl... 6 years back I met a guy and in the first call he told me that he cannot love any girl because of his family issues and asked me to never take him seriously... eventually after a year I fell in love with him... he was friendly kind and gentle. When he started realising about my feelings for him, he told me that he has a girlfriend so I should not take this friendship into some other sense... but I could not stop myself... we became so good friends. WE used to talk all day and night. After 3 years he left me because of her girlfriend but never stopped messaging me on Facebook.
HE was very conscious about his IMAGE. He asked me not to disscuss him with anyone. I promised him. But I was in deep depression. It was one sided love... I started ignoring his messages. One day he called me and asked me why I don't reply him. I told him everything that I have disscussed him with my friends. He got bursted with anger. I am so much in love with him. I don't understand why he threatenes me?
He is so conscious about his image and respect :S
We patch up again he forgive me for disscussing him. DO you think disscussing about our depressive feelings is wrong??
We patch up again and he again asked me not to talk about him. I talked about him with my cousin. HE asked me and again I told him the truth. I never hide anything. NOW AGAIN HE LEFT ME.
HE says there is nothing in between us so I should shut my mouth and spend good time and don't talk about him to anyone. I am in deep depression.
I have promised him again...
If he will ask me again then I have to tell him about this question from you people also. I THINK I AM BECOMING MAD!
I WANT TO DIE

[odinn7]

You need to forget about him. This is not healthy for you. He doesn't care about you and isn't interested so why can't you let go? This is to the point of obsession I think. You need to let go, move on, and find someone that cares for you the way you do for them.

[beenazafar]

You need to forget about him. This is not healthy for you. He doesn't care about you and isn't interested so why can't you let go? This is to the point of obsession I think. You need to let go, move on, and find someone that cares for you the way you do for them.

But two times I met him... he kissed me... :S I never kissed any guy in my life except him..
He never met any girl alone except me... I said he does not love me... but he threatens me... I am so scared.. I still love him

[beenazafar]

He was the first guy in my life... I live in a country where no girl is allowed to hang out with any guy...
I have never seen any guy except him :( I don't know how can I overcome this depression.. I cannot tell my family I cannot share with anyone I cannot go out of my home.