[JudyKayTee]

It is possible that multiple people can share a computer. If they do we encourage them to have their own accounts. So its not clear here what this situation is.

Then it's my mistake - I just always flash back to the person who posted in one name and then argued with herself in another.

One name was used only to argue and give "reddies."

So - I don't need to know but did one user name give the other an "agree"?

[J_9]

Im 14 &i had sex for the first time it was great I love him but I need advice.

The sex may have been great for you, however at 14 years old, pregnancy will be terrible and labor and delivery will be the most painful experience of your life.

[C0bra_M3nace]

The sex may have been great for you, however at 14 years old, pregnancy will be terrible and labor and delivery will be the most painful experience of your life.

This is an excellent point, I just wish teens would realize this before it's "too late".

[J_9]

This is an excellent point, I just wish teens would realize this before it's "too late".

I totally agree. I wish teen girls could spend one night with me in the Labor & Delivery department. Many of these girls end up with cesarean sections because their pelvis is too small to accommodate the baby coming out vaginally. Many of them also suffer from PIH (Pregnancy Induced Hypertension), meaning that they have high blood pressure caused by pregnancy. I've seen girls this age have seizures because of this.

It's very sad that they feel that the sex is fun, but they don't consider the consequences to their actions. Most of these girls never finish school and end up on welfare and, of course, the father of the baby doesn't support them because babies are hard work and Daddy is emotionally too young to help out, so he goes out to party while leaving the girl alone to raise a baby.

In all honesty, in all my years of doing this, I've never seen a boy stick by a girl after she has had the baby. She ends up raising it alone.