[JudyKayTee]

supposedly 1 percent of the population is like me, so obviously i feels like i don't belong here and i mostly don't. no reason to beleive otherwise based on my own life. i HATE it and will be glad when it's over.

i don't feels bad for suicide people like slyvia plath, IMO she isn't missing much and neither is her son who also died.

Nobody said they felt "bad" for Sylvia Plath.

1% is like you in what aspect? Homeless? Jobless? Suicidal? Something else?

[gigi21108]

Its never OK to kill yourself OK now get a job wash kars work at wendys

[redlipsticklena]

Nobody said they felt "bad" for Sylvia Plath.

1% is like you in what aspect? Homeless? Jobless? Suicidal? Something else?

I didn't say anyone felt bad. I said I don't.

1 percent of the people have aspergers. They says 3 percent of population is gay and 1 or 3 percent population is asexual. I reads about it online and I am probably a freak asexual because I don't belong no where else. If not I am something they haven't discovered yet either way there's no place for me here that's for sure.

[redlipsticklena]

its never ok to kill yourself ok now get a job wash kars work at wendys

I am over it and don't care anymore

[redlipsticklena]

When some people have minds that are messed up it's not right to think they should keep having to suffer on like that just so other people don't feel inconvenienced. Its not forme to be here and I am tired of trying for other people so no point anymore.

[JudyKayTee]

when some people have minds that are messed up it's not right to think they should keep having to suffer on like that just so other people don't feel inconvenienced. its not forme to be here and i am tired of trying for other people so no point anymore.

So stop posting and you won't have to listen to anyone here.

You said "i don't feels bad for suicide people like slyvia plat ..." I said apparently no one else does either.

[redlipsticklena]

So stop posting and you won't have to listen to anyone here.

You said "i don't feels bad for suicide people like slyvia plat ..." I said apparently no one else does either.

Okay fine if nobody else does. You can stop posting in this thread anytime you want as well instead of keep coming back again and again.

[Wondergirl]

when some people have minds that are messed up it's not right to think they should keep having to suffer on like that just so other people don't feel inconvenienced. its not forme to be here and i am tired of trying for other people so no point anymore.

Aspies are smarter than the general population, have better retention of facts and information, have specialized knowledge about things, have clear-cut ideas of what is right or wrong and will speak the truth about situations, have better focus than most people, are independent thinkers, look at problems from the inside out and at a 3-D level, are very logical and rational, are known for being direct (speaking their mind and being honest and determined), have a strong sense of social justice, and are loyal friends.

[redlipsticklena]

Why was that stupid?

Why did everyone look at you?

Why the sigh?

It was stupid because in the book they make it like this girl was soooo depressed and 'omg' etc. but then in the ends she go to some dumb clinic andget fixed. Like oh that's all it took. She wasn't that depressed in the first place IMO. What a crock.

My theraist said everyone look because that was an inappropriate response to the girl in the book's problem.

[Wondergirl]

she go to some dumb clinic andget fixed.

Why is that not a good ending?

Clinics are dumb? You mean I wasted $20,000 and three years in studying to be a counselor?

my theraist said everyone look because that was an inappropriate response to the girl in the book's problem.

My husband makes inappropriate responses all the times. He made one just two hours ago. My writers' group friend does it all the time. That's what Aspies do.

[redlipsticklena]

Aspies are smarter than the general population, have better retention of facts and information, have specialized knowledge about things, have clear-cut ideas of what is right or wrong and will speak the truth about situations, have better focus than most people, are independent thinkers, look at problems from the inside out and at a 3-D level, are very logical and rational, are known for being direct (speaking their mind and being honest and determined), have a strong sense of social justice, and are loyal friends.

Well maybe that's your husband and son traits then. Because if I had those quality it would have been showed by now not 32 years into life. I don't have nothing to offer again if I did it would have come to pass by now. Basically by continuing here I am wasting everyone's time space and resources. Could be put to people that have something worthwile to offer the rest of the world.

[redlipsticklena]

Why is that not a good ending?

Clinics are dumb? You mean I wasted $20,000 and three years in studying to be a counselor?

My husband makes inappropriate responses all the times. He made one just two hours ago. My writers' group friend does it all the time. That's what Aspies do.

No you didn't wastes your money. There is some people out there that are help by counselors and everything. Those are the people you should be focus on not the ones with zero hope. Just face it there's people like me that have no hope and no will for survival anymore.

If your husband and his friend is okay with making comments that other people find weird or inappropriate I guess it'snot a problem then. But someone like myself just wanted to be normal and like everyone else not a freak.

[Wondergirl]

no you didn't wastes your money. There is some people out there that are help by counselors and everything. Those are the people you should be focus on not the ones with zero hope. Just face it there's people like me that have no hope and no will for survival anymore.

But that's what counselors like best -- to work with clients who think they have zero hope. That's what many of my classes were about. It's wonderful to finally see a light bulb go on over someone's head when that person realizes there IS hope after all.

if your husband and his friend is okay with making comments that other people find weird or inappropriate I guess it'snot a problem then. But someone like myself just wanted to be normal and like everyone else not a freak.

Aspies are okay with it. I'm not. So I have strategies to deal with it.

Why don't you step up to the plate and be proud of being an Aspie and stop wishing you are "normal" (whatever that is). My life improved when I finally stopped wishing I was a boy and finally enjoyed being a girl.

[redlipsticklena]

But that's what counselors like best -- to work with clients who think they have zero hope. That's what many of my classes were about. It's wonderful to finally see a light bulb go on over someone's head when that person realizes there IS hope after all.

Aspies are okay with it. I'm not. So I have strategies to deal with it.

Why don't you step up to the plate and be proud of being an Aspie and stop wishing you are "normal" (whatever that is). My life improved when I finally stopped wishing I was a boy and finally enjoyed being a girl.

What? Why were you trying to be a boy? There is a class of people like that stuck in the wrong body, they call it. How can you treats people if you have identity/gender crisis yourself? I am not judging. Just asking

My therapist is at wits end with me I can just feel it. Therapist want to treat patients that have no hope but really there is hope for them. Not ones who are hopeless all the way around like me

Aspies are not okay with it. I'm not okay with it at all today something embarrassing happened. I went to see my worker and the lady at the desk was turned away on a phone. Another lady was in the office going through papers and she said 'just wait a minute she will be right with you.' I said who *worker's name?* how do you know I was here for her? And the lady walked out the office. There was 2 men cleaning and they bust out laughing. Sigh. I realize later she was talking about the desk lady.

Anyway that's the type of stuff that keep me wanting to be just be normal and never accept aspergers because it result in too many fau pauxs

I posts a new qustion and if you really are counselor maybe you can go answer that one too.

[mynameiskathy]

I's never okay! I feel very sorry for you, but you'll just have to live through it. Never give up on yourself. If you commit suicide, you'll never see what tomorrow brings you! There is always a light at the end of a tunnel.

[Wondergirl]

what? Why were you trying to be a boy? There is a class of people like that stuck in the wrong body, they call it. How can you treats people if you have identity/gender crisis yourself? I am not judging. Just asking

I don't have that. I was a tomboy when I was young. I knew men were in charge (back 60 years ago) and women just stayed home. I didn't want to be stuck at home; I wanted to be in charge. Then the civil rights movement came along and women's lib, so I found my place as a woman.

my therapist is at wits end with me I can just feel it. Therapist want to treat patients that have no hope but really there is hope for them. Not ones who are hopeless all the way around like me

Have you ever had a happy, positive thought in your entire life?

aspies are not okay with it.

If anyone is okay with it, it is Aspies--who are the most smug, contented, sure-of-themselves group around.

anyway that's the type of stuff that keep me wanting to be just be normal

That could happen to anyone.

I posts a new qustion and if you really are counselor maybe you can go answer that one too.

I'm on it like a warm, cuddly blanket!

[JudyKayTee]

I'm on it like a warm, cuddly blanket!

Like a warm, cuddly PATIENT blanket!

[Wondergirl]

Like a warm, cuddly PATIENT blanket!

Yes, I am always patient.