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    Jul 6, 2012, 12:43 PM
    Could I be pregnant?[handjob incident]
    June 23 me and my boyfriend were messing around [no intercourse or anything]. But I did give him oral sex. He told me he sort of came in my mouth but it wasn't a lot at all. 10 mintues later I went home and went upstairs. Notthing I just touched my vagina . Only for like 2 seconds. The next day it dawned on me that I probably still had semen on my hand. Today is July 6th. My period was supposed to start yesterday. I did experience some cramping and bloating. And gas. As if my period was going to start. But it didn't. I am very worried and I really need some feeedback and advice.


    Please & thank you.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 01:16 PM
    No,your not pregnant.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 01:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rbdrbd View Post
    no,your not pregnant.
    I appreciate the answer. I've been so worried this past week or two about it.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 01:32 PM
    No you would not be pregnant from sperm on your hands, that were on your hands the entire time you went home, went upstairs and "touched" yourself.

    Next don't you ever wipe or wash your hands, sperm on your hands you are opening doors, and touching things, yuch.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 01:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by confusedlily View Post
    i appreciate the answer. ive been so worried this past week or two about it.
    Sure..
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    Jul 6, 2012, 01:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    No you would not be pregnant from sperm on your hands, that were on your hands the entire time you went home, went upstairs and "touched" yourself.

    Next don't you ever wipe or wash your hands, sperm on your hands you are opening doors, and touching things, yuch.
    Thank you very much, I appreciate the advice.
    As I said before I did experience mild cramping, bloating and gas yesterday , making me believe it was implantation bleeding. So I am not sure.
    But I am definatley taking what you said into consideration.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:16 PM
    No, you cannot get pregnant this way. No, it was not implantation. You are getting your period.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    No, you cannot get pregnant this way. No, it was not implantation. You are getting your period.
    I recently got into the shower and a spot of blood came out ?
    Is it still my period about to start or is it implantation now?
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:34 PM
    Honey, we told you that you cannot get pregnant this way so how could it be implantation?
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Honey, we told you that you cannot get pregnant this way so how could it be implantation?
    I am sorry. I just never dealt with this situation.
    I've read other post where some people say you can get pregnant from semen on your fingers.
    And then the whole spotting thing happened.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:40 PM
    Considering your encounter it is impossible for you to be pregnant.

    Do you know how pregnancy happens?

    Are you ready to be a parent? If you aren't you should reconsider having sexual encounters.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:47 PM
    I've ever really been informed on how it happens.
    I am not ready to have a child and I don't consider having anymore sexual intercourse for a while.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:49 PM
    But honey, you didn't have intercourse. May I ask how old you are?
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:52 PM
    I am 16 years old honestly. And I know. I know I am talking in a circle about the situation.
    But I am so worried.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:54 PM
    Take this as a lesson learned. I deliver babies to 16 year old girls all the time, but none of them ever got pregnant from semen on their hands.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:57 PM
    That makes me feel so much better.
    I am definatley taking the things you are telling me and maybe it'll give me a breather.

    As for my period, what should I do?
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    Jul 6, 2012, 04:59 PM
    You do the same thing you do every month with your period. Now, remember it might be lighter or you may even skip it only because you have been so stressed out over this. Stress can cause missed periods.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 05:01 PM
    Thank you so much ! You're the only person whose been making sense of this.
    I highly appreciate it.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 05:02 PM
    You are very welcome. If you have any questions, feel free to ask, but remember that we are only volunteers here, so it might take some time for us to answer. You don't need to post the same question multiple times. We will get to them eventually.
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    Jul 6, 2012, 09:08 PM
    Help!
    So I thought I was getting my period , but my pad has darkish-light brown discharge with a few red spots...
    Now I am stressed all over againn
    Is this implantation bleeding.

    Some one please tell me.

    Thank you.
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