[Diegogirl33]

I just found out I'm pregnant by my boyfriend of 2 months And I already have 3 kids + a beautiful 2 1/2 year old grand daughter for my daughter. (she was raped). He has 3 kids too. He's divorced and so am I . We love each other and are falling deeply in love whenever we're together. My kids are 18,15&11. We've discussed marriage and we both agreed that we won't have any kids together since we have kids already. He's worried that things won't work out between us like his past relationships. His youngest is 4. I'm worried too, but we both agree that this is it. That's how much we're in love. We both have great careers and make good money. We were planning on buying a house before we get married but, I just took a pregnancy test yesterday. We're considering abortion but, it will haunt both of us forever cause we don't really believe in that. I'm not sure what to do?.

[ali18ninja]

In the end, this is going to be something you both have to decide on together by yourselves. Don't let anyone on here or in your personal lives tell you what choice you have to make. People are usually for one side only. I, for example, am against abortion but that doesn't mean I don't think someone else should have to believe the way I do. It's not my life or choice. Talk about it with your boyfriend. Talk to family. By all means talk to someone you know. Don't make your decision based off an answer you receive here.

[Diegogirl33]

I agree. Thanks for your honest answer. Well wishes

[Fr_Chuck]

This is your choice, since ( and sorry) the odds is he will not be there 5 years from now so your choice has to be your beleifs and not pressured by his.

If you feel abortion is wrong and if you will feel a lose when you see kids the age of the child's yours may have been, And of course you and he made the choice to have sex, knowing that sex equals babies. He could have had it fixed where he could not, and so on.