Originally Posted by
phillysteakandcheese
Sassypea's responses start passive-aggressive and move to being outright arrogant.
I was attacked, what would you expect?
Take a closer look at Post #3 in this thread. Sassypea's response ends by "sticking it" to the questioner. Follow that pattern of behaviour down... to "Or should I just Google it?".
again, I was just following titt for tatt. I'm not going to just sit around and let people call me immature when my very first post simply asked where to get started. And I was questioned in my ability to be a coach.
Yup, got a little snarky. Had fun too. You have no idea what I do professionally now so you really don't know if my comments are geniunely me or if I am someone in their 20's, or if I'm just trying to hit back. One must be a bit of a chameleon to be able to read others well, I think. One must also have a quick wit and be able to think on their toes to give good advice. Just because I would rather not put up with the potential abuse of those not interested in answering my question does not make me arrogant.
And wanting to be God was me having some fun with Em's comments. My goodness, do you honestly think I could jump so easily between being a life coach and God? You take things entirely too seriously.
A key factor in dealing with people is knowing that how you impact responses from people by your communication style.
Oh I knew. I just didn't expect to be jumped all over because I took offense to being called immature or, god forbid, asking a question on how to do something on a BB specifically made for asking how to do something.
Sassypea has the
potential to be a great life coach, but still has a lot of work and studying to do before that can happen.
EXACTLY! I'm the first to admit it. Oh wait, I WAS the first to admit it when I asked the question in the first place on where to get started and I was attacked for being too young.
And we come back full circle.
Look, I never said I knew it all. I said I wanted to know where to start. Because I'm sarcastic, arrogant and uneducated NOW doesn't mean I can't be a good coach later. Isn't that the whole point of time, growing up, and life? We learn new things as we go along. We help each other out. Any of this ring any bells?