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    Jun 27, 2012, 07:54 PM
    Very awkward question
    So my new girlfriend and I have been together for a couple days so far, and we've been getting very intimate. We've been having lots of make out sessions but are not sexually active. The thing is, a little while after these sessions, or if they're very long, my genitals (im a guy) start to get very very sore and tender, like if anything (including my clothes) touches them they throb. Also my lower abdomin is very sore. This comes as a surprise because I'm bery relaxed when I'm with her and were not sexualy active in any way. My question is has anyone else ever had this and does anybody know what it is because right now I can't walk because it is so painfull. Thanks in advance
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    Jun 27, 2012, 08:18 PM
    I have to ask because it seems to me you should know the answer, so here goes... How old are you? Is this a real question?
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    Jun 27, 2012, 08:46 PM
    Yes, and where are you from,
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    Jun 27, 2012, 09:03 PM
    Since you answered my serious question I think I'll help u Answer your serious question. Get checked by a doctor and if he reccomends a specialist, go there. That could be cutting off blood flow in which case would result in amputation if you wait too long. That's very possible so be careful. Ask your doctor soon.
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    Jun 27, 2012, 09:05 PM
    Unless u don't want any balls...
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    Jun 28, 2012, 07:41 AM
    Im 15 and she's 16, and yes I very much want my balls, this question was completley serious I'm from canada
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    Jun 28, 2012, 08:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hppz103 View Post
    Im 15 and shes 16, and yes i very much want my balls, this question was completley serious im from canada
    Well then seriously get checked u want to eliminate issues like that soon go to a doctor (regular before specialist)
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    Jun 28, 2012, 08:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hppz103 View Post
    Im 15 and shes 16, and yes i very much want my balls, this question was completley serious im from canada
    You're not sexually active, and you shouldn't be, that's good. The pressure, or discomfort ,you're feeling, is most likely due to being aroused, without release.

    You're in Canada! We have sex education! You didn't learn this in school!
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    Jun 28, 2012, 08:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Chevyman84 View Post
    Unless u don't want any balls.....
    What? How would he loose his balls because he's sexually aroused?

    What expertise do you have that warrants you answering this question, and scaring the OP to death?

    Show where you got your supposed facts.
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    Jun 28, 2012, 08:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    What? How would he loose his balls because he's sexually aroused?

    What expertise do you have that warrants you answering this question, and scaring the OP to death?

    Show where you got your supposed facts.
    It happened to me if you move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow I'm being serious. It's better to be safe and check everything that might have to do with it than find out it actually is. And you should wait to have sex until your older and quit it with the underage sex, that's how you get stds which it might also be.
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    Jun 28, 2012, 08:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Chevyman84 View Post
    It happened to me if you move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow I'm being serious. It's better to be safe and check everything that might have to do with it than find out it actually is. And you should wait to have sex until your older and quit it with the underage sex, that's how you get stds which it might also be.
    So you're saying that you lost your balls?

    It happened to me if you move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow
    I agree that if there's a concern the OP should see a doctor.

    Underage sex? Where did you get that from? The OP stated that they're not sexually active.
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    Jun 29, 2012, 05:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    You're not sexually active, and you shouldn't be, that's good. The pressure, or discomfort ,you're feeling, is most likely due to being aroused, without release.

    You're in Canada! We have sex education! You didn't learn this in school!?
    No I have not learned this in school, but I've never heard of this in my life, which is why I'm worried
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    Jun 29, 2012, 05:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    So you're saying that you lost your balls?



    I agree that if there's a concern the OP should see a doctor.

    Underage sex? Where did you get that from? The OP stated that they're not sexually active.
    No were not having sex and they're not twisting or even uncomfortable, they just get tender,
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    Jun 29, 2012, 05:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Chevyman84 View Post
    It happened to me if u move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow I'm being serious. It's better to be safe and check everything that might have to do with it than find out it actually is. And u should wait to have sex until ur older and quit it with the underage sex, that's how u get stds which it might also be.
    I don't have an std, and its nit from discomfort, it just starts
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    Jun 29, 2012, 05:24 AM
    Sexual arousal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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    Jun 29, 2012, 05:27 AM
    Hello h:

    Google, "blue balls"..

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    Jun 29, 2012, 08:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello h:

    Google, "blue balls"..

    excon
    Omg thank you excon, that would be it, is there a way to treat, fix or stop it from happening? Obviously without Havig sexual release?
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    Jun 29, 2012, 08:44 AM
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    Omg thank you excon, that would be it, is there a way to treat, fix or stop it from happening?
    Hello again, h:

    Nahhh..

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    Jun 29, 2012, 09:09 AM
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    Hello again, h:

    Nahhh..

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    Dammit -_- thanks so much

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