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My sons wife elbow my my mother in the ribs, disrespected her numerous of times. I brought this to his wife's attention. The outcome of all this, I am not allow to speak or visit my grandchildren . My son told me he did not trust me that I could be violent, a passive aggressor, words that I could not belief he describe who I am to him
. I was not a prefect parent, I don't know who he was describing. I spoke to my best friend s that were in my life since his birth, I spoke to my mother I ask them all , could I have been this person he had describe. They were taken aback, the question is
What can I say or do? I called him to asked him why? Why are you doing this, he then told me I hate his wife. I told him where did you get that from, he just kept on surprising me, I am crushed. I am reaching out do I need the help? My heart is broken. I raise my son as a single parent, love him and took care of him the best that I could. My family and friends are surprised , my father told me I did well with my son. Sorry this is a little wordy. What should I do?