[varsha123]

I love someone. My parents have asked me to marry someone else.
The problem is, my parents are searching for a guy since 1.5 years. At that point of time, the person whom I love was not ready for commitment to marry me. Now, he has committed me to marry within 2 years. And, at the same time, my parents have already finished searching for a guy. So,
• Should I marry that person whom my parents have selected?
• Or I should deny for the marriage and say them that I am not ready for the marriage now, And I'll marry after 2 years
• Or I should tell them that I love someone else.

[joypulv]

Do your parents know the man you love? Would he be acceptable, do you think, in terms of family background, religion, education, ability to support a family? How willing are you to lose ties to your parents if they disapprove and disown you?

[varsha123]

My parents know the guy as a just friend.He is of different caste. Except that, all other aspects are fine(in terms of family background,education,ability). My parents are bit cautious on caste. I have to take decision today, whatever I do.
Either, I tell them that I will marry after 2 years and after 1.5 years I say that I love someone, as he has asked me the time.
Or, I tell them that I love some one now itself..
Or, agree to parents.

[joypulv]

How willing are you to take love over loss of parental approval, maybe even wanting nothing to do with you?