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Middlewisdom · Jun 17, 2012, 11:46 AM

I've been sleeping with this girl and she was sexually abused and has a scar going from her bikini line down the inside of her thigh I was abuses in the bed room to need HELP!

Fr_Chuck · Jun 17, 2012, 11:50 AM

Sleeping with any 13 year old is abuse in and to itself. They are not emotionally really to be having sex. They need to be in counseling, not creating more harm.

Middlewisdom · Jun 17, 2012, 11:56 AM

I don't think she can stop she gives me eyes and they basically tell me to do thing and I can never say no.

odinn7 · Jun 17, 2012, 12:36 PM

How old are you?

Middlewisdom · Jun 17, 2012, 03:57 PM

13

ScottGem · Jun 17, 2012, 04:03 PM

Are you for real? Do you want to be a father? Can't you control yourself? This girl needs help not someone else to abuse her. And you shouldn't be having sex at 13.

Leave this girl alone! And talk to your parents about getting counseling for your lack of self control.

Middlewisdom · Jun 17, 2012, 04:04 PM

She gives me eyes and actually ask to do things.

I'm going to talk to somebody.

ScottGem · Jun 17, 2012, 04:35 PM

Originally Posted by Middlewisdom

she gives me eyes and actually ask to do things.

So don't be alone with her. And say no.

Originally Posted by Middlewisdom

i'm going to talk to somebody.

Please do, your parents would be the first to talk to.

Middlewisdom · Jun 18, 2012, 07:50 AM

I talked to her she says we can stop sleeping together but we are still dating.

ScottGem · Jun 18, 2012, 09:51 AM

Do your parents know you are dating? At your age parents need to know and approve.

mmresd · Jun 18, 2012, 10:07 AM

You can never say no? Be a man and have some self control, if you can't do that, you shouldn't be having intercourse in the first place. She is a child, and you are being a pedophile in the eyes of the law, I really would not like that in my record.

slapshot_oi · Jun 18, 2012, 12:42 PM

Originally Posted by mmresd

She is a child, and you are being a pedophile in the eyes of the law, I really would not like that in my record.

You failed to read what the OP wrote. They're both 13. He's not a pedophile, they're equals.

Middlewisdom · Jun 18, 2012, 04:32 PM

Yes they know that weer dating but they don't know what we did in the bedroom.

Originally Posted by slapshot_oi

You failed to read what the OP wrote. They're both 13. He's not a pedophile, they're equals.

Actually until I'm 14 it's against the law where I am but I can get married at age 14 and her she can get married now.

Middlewisdom · Jun 18, 2012, 04:45 PM

Originally Posted by ScottGem

Do your parents know you are dating? At your age parents need to know and approve.

Yes they know weer dating but they don't know what went on in the bedroom.

Alty · Jun 18, 2012, 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by Middlewisdom

yes they know that weer dating but they don't know what we did in the bedroom.

actually until I'm 14 it's against the law where i am but i can get married at age 14 and her she can get married now.

Where do you live that it's legal to marry at the age of 13?

Middlewisdom · Jun 18, 2012, 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by Alty

Where do you live that it's legal to marry at the age of 13?

New Hampshire

She can get married at age 13.

I have to leave for the night.

Alty · Jun 18, 2012, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by Middlewisdom

she can get married at age 13.

I find no law that states that. Can you post the link to where you got this information?

Also, you should know, the age of legal consent in New Hampshire is 16. Yes, there is a close in age exception, for people over the age of 13, if their age difference is 3 years or less. But neither one of you are over 13.

Fr_Chuck · Jun 18, 2012, 05:01 PM

Originally Posted by slapshot_oi

You failed to read what the OP wrote. They're both 13. He's not a pedophile, they're equals.

This was a play on words, and I think I started it, this 13 year old silly child, is claiming to be a mature young adult. So if he is really a mature young adult, then he would be a pedophile because he has sexual desires on a child.

Middlewisdom · Jun 18, 2012, 05:18 PM

Originally Posted by Alty

I find no law that states that. Can you post the link to where you got this information?

Also, you should know, the age of legal consent in New Hampshire is 16. Yes, there is a close in age exception, for people over the age of 13, if their age difference is 3 years or less. But neither one of you are over 13.

http://law.findlaw.com/state-laws/ma...new-hampshire/

Code Section 457:4 to 457:6
Minimum Legal Age With Parental Consent Male: 14; Female: 13
Minimum Legal Age Without Parental Consent Male: 18; Female: 18
Comments Any marriage contracted by persons under 18 may, in discretion of superior court, be annulled at suit of the party who at the time of marriage was under 18. The parent or guardian can also annul, unless the parties confirm marriage upon reaching age of consent (18 years).

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Alty · Jun 18, 2012, 05:22 PM

Originally Posted by Middlewisdom

http://law.findlaw.com/state-laws/marriage-age-requirements/new-hampshire/

Code Section 457:4 to 457:6
Minimum Legal Age With Parental Consent Male: 14; Female: 13
Minimum Legal Age Without Parental Consent Male: 18; Female: 18
Comments Any marriage contracted by persons under 18 may, in discretion of superior court, be annulled at suit of the party who at the time of marriage was under 18. The parent or guardian can also annul, unless the parties confirm marriage upon reaching age of consent (18 years).

And you really think her parents would consent to her getting married at 13?