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    Jun 10, 2012, 11:22 AM
    I'm gay and have a crush on my classmate
    Hey guys, I'm 16 and don't really talk much. I have this crush on my classmate (16 yrs. Old too) for SIX months. He is playful, good-looking and hot. I can't stop staring at him every time.

    We treat each others like normal friends (If you talk to me, I will talk to you back) Therefore, I'm not sure whether he is straight, gay or bi. Although he had been in a relationship with a girl in our school, he broke up with her after a few weeks.

    We used to talk sometimes, but I can barely stand the situation. I feel very awkward (and happy in the same time,LOL) every time we talk. He once put his head on my shoulder when he queue behind me in the canteen, asking me some sort of things. I just answered him in normal way.

    There's one day, he typed " me please" in my FB chat box. I was shocked and replied him " LOL, go to your gf" (just to pretend that I had no interest on that topic and assume that he was just joking). There's no reply from him after that. Am I wrong or what? :/

    I feel like I want to confess with him but I scare that it will ruin everything. Maybe he will not accept me, and that will make me my life suck. And the worst is, he might tell all of his friends that I'm gay!

    Can someone help me with this please? Should I tell him my feelings toward him?
    HELP MEEEEEEE
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    Jun 10, 2012, 12:16 PM
    You keep talking and make friends and learn more before you go confessing your feelings. How else if you can find out about him, and is even worthy of trust?
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    Jun 10, 2012, 12:51 PM
    First I assume you are not public about your sexual feelings. That makes it hard, since the first time you want to come out you have to be ready for everyone to know.

    So before you do anything, get confident in who you are.
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    Jun 11, 2012, 01:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    You keep talking and make friends and learn more before you go confessing your feelings. How else if you can find out about him, and is even worthy of trust?
    All right, thanks for the advice!
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    Jun 11, 2012, 02:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    First I assume you are not public about your sexual feelings. That makes it hard, since the first time you want to come out you have to be ready for everyone to know.

    So before you do anything, get confident in who you are.
    So, just get confident in who I am and be ready for everyone to know it? Ok, thanks a lot!
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