[M_Kumar]

Hi,I am Manish.I am rajasthani marwadi person.I love a girl who is brahmin,Pandey.
We love each other very much and cannot live without each other.She told me that her father told her that she can choose the person she can marry as she is a lonely daughter. This matter is clear from her side.I told my parents about her. They refused for intercaste marriage probably due to social evils and loss of reputations. They told me that I can select the girl which they will show me.But my father told me to forget the girl and not to talk her. But I refused him to do so as she is my life and I cannot live without her. My parents love me very much. My mother is kindly hearted person. My mother said that as she is brahmin, so we do not let her to clean utensils etc. Our relationship is 3 years old. We matched our kundali. Up to 30-32 gunas are matched out of 36. Our thoughts are same. She is postgraduate and I also. She is a sanskari girl and obey her parents as well as my parents. We decided that we marry each other or not to marry at all.
Please guide me how can I convinced my parents for this marriage.

[sanuv]

Hello Manish,
Your problem is similar to mine.And your decision to marry each other or not at all is also the same as ours.But both of you need a lot of patience and endurance to continue with it as you will be put through a lot a emotional pressure.But if you stick to your decision then slowly parent's will agree.It will definitely take a lot of time may be years but once they realise how strong your relationship is they will eventually agree.So be strong and patient.Do not get emotionally blackmailed.

Good luck