[whyamihorrible]

Ok I have really liked this girl for a while now. (since 6th grade and by the way I'm in 8th) and every time I go to my 6th period class I get hopeful because I'll try to ask her out after class. One day I finally worked up the nerve to try and talk to her after class. I went up to her and said "hey Alexis can I talk with you for a minute?" and she said "leave me alone and just just go away." after I walked home I sat in my bed and just felt heartbroken. I really like her And I get bullied a lot at school. I just thought maybe the thoughts of going away would end if someone I liked cared. It just made me feel depressed for the weekend. I just want to know how to get her to understand how I feel about her? Please help because I know my parents won't.

[Fr_Chuck]

You like her, you will like or want to get to know dozens of girls over the years. Some may go out with you, and many of those may only go out once, they will decide it is not what they want.

But sorry, many times they will not be interested. She may be liking someone else right now, she may not want to be interested in boys right now.

[whyamihorrible]

Ok thanks I've just been kind of depressed and feeling like no one likes me. Which is probabaly true because I get bullied by a lot of people and get made fun of A lot. And people just don't respect me. I thought someone who might even care the slightest bit about me would make me feel better.

[indya]

Dear, you have some issues I guess. Don't be so insecure. And don't try to be a people pleaser, not everyone is bound to like you. You are a unique person, just be yourself.

And about the bullying, complain to the school authorities.

[whyamihorrible]

Yea I guess I can open up to more people and try to make a friend. But I don't know why but today in class, we got picked to go into groups about a debate we were doing and people got upset when I got into their groups. :(