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    May 7, 2012, 11:56 PM
    Jealous boyfriend.
    My boyfriend of almost 2 years is a jealous guy. We are in a long distance relationship (across country) and we talk everyday and we do enjoy each others company and love each other but he cannot get over my past relationships.

    Anytime he thinks about one he gets very upset and even though he says he's not mad at me, it feels like it and I get very frustrated and upset because I don't understand how he can be upset from something in the past that doesn't even involve us or him.

    It's getting to the point where I am almost exhausted by this argument which has no ground in my eyes. This is constant battle and argument... I don't know what to tell him or what to say anymore..
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    May 8, 2012, 09:24 AM
    Tell him he better handle his fear and insecurity better and you will no longer tolerate him taking it out on YOU!! He does it, because you allow it, and have for a long time.
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    May 8, 2012, 09:27 AM
    I was in the same situation.. my boyfriend of a year had EXTREME jealous issues and it cause so many problems I told him that he needs to forget the past and move on and if he doesn't then we can't be together
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    May 8, 2012, 04:40 PM
    There is nothing you can do about it now, he either gets over it or you are going to have to end things with him if he can't. Lesson learned, next time don't tell your previous sexual experiences to your boyfriend, there is no reason why he needs to know that information.

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