[bitzzz]

Hi I'm in a reltnshp since last 9 yrs bt I'm unable to convince my parnts 4 getng me mary with the boy I love. His family membrs and himself. Has also tried to tak and solv all the prbs they have regardng our reltn bt nthng hapnd they don't want to undrstnd nythng. Evry time I try to tak to thm they *** up with new prb lms. And they evrytym try to find his mistaks n. Failurv tried almst everythng to convince. Thm bt nthng is hapenig till nw. Can nybdy sugest sum ideas. If u hv ny idea please mail me on my email id its. >Removed< N v r in the same caste. Nor my siblings are ready to support us.

[JudyKayTee]

Please don't post your email address.

You seem to have two options - marry this person and defy your parents OR don't marry this person.

It's been 9 years. They are not going to change.

[bitzzz]

Bt hw cn I leave him it has been 9 yrs reltnshp . Cn you sugest sumthng efctve that mght chnge my parnts views nw . Cz befre tkng ny tough stp I wnt to try last

[JudyKayTee]

No, I can't. If they don't like him after 9 years I can't imagine what anyone can do to change their minds.

How can you leave him? You decide that you don't want your life as it is until you die and you make changes.

[bitzzz]

Help me out please nybdy cz I'm in a big trouble nw

[JudyKayTee]

What does "big trouble" mean? Here (in the US) it means you are pregnant.

If your parents didn't like him to begin with I suspect they're going to like him a lost less now.

I'll try another angle - what do you want anybody to say? Nobody here can FORCE your parents to do anything, to approve of anything, to like anyone.

You have two choices - leave or stay.

I've already explained it once.