[Thegingerlouis]

Well my and my ex broke up on Sunday, she tried to put it nicely but there's no nice way to end a relationship I'm 21 and she's 18. I was with her for over a year we've been through a hell of a lot together in a year and it's been a really good year, she told me she still loves me but doesn't know if she wants a relationship.

I started talking to other guys in a flirtatious way to try and see if she'll get jealous and she did. A hell of a lot. I met up with her the other day as we ended up kissing, we've been constantly on and off with each other one minute she wants to talk to me the next she wants me to leave her alone and never talk to her again, like she's constantly changing her mind. She text me and I asked of she got butterflies when we kissed and she said she did so she still obviously has strong feelings about me. She was saying I love you too when I said I love you and I was on the phone to her and she said I love you first, and she's with all her friends so she clearly doesn't have a problem with people knowing she does.

She told me to tell the other girl I was talking to that I was still involved with her or she'd tell her herself, I obviously agreed and said sure I'll tell her and we've been fine. I'll do anything for her. Another thing is she says she doesn't want to be with me but she doesn't want me to move on.

I really don't know what to do. Any advice on what I could do to either win her back or what would be really appreciated thanks guys.

[indya]

She's just playing with you. Draining you emotionally. Stop being with her. Practice no contact.

[lemarkstaurt]

More than playing with you- she herself seemed confused.

[Fr_Chuck]

Explain to her that if she is not "with" you you are free to be with who you want to be. Then go to no contact, stop talking to her, she will only drag you on and on and get no where.

[talaniman]

Sure she is playing mind games with you, you are easy, what are you hynotized? It will get worse.